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Nepročitano 17-05-20, 08:58   #11071
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Kad shvatis da nema smisla ljutiti se ili mrziti. Sce se dogadja s razlogom, moras prihvatiti da osoba nije htjela lose, nego drugacjje ne zna. Takva je logika u konceptu razmisljanja osobe koja te naljutila. Mouda je tvoja logika malo poremecena. Zato se ne moras naljutiti zbog neke rijeci ili djela necijeg, jer mozda ti je samo htio ukazat na problem
Da sve ima svoj razlog to je manje-više jasno.

Mislim ipak da ima ljudi koji i svjesno nanose bol da bi oni izvukli sopstvenu korist, a dakako ima i onih koji to rade nesvjesno. Moj je problem više u tome što ne nisam spoznala kome/zašto trebam oprostiti. Dijelom i znam, ali nije to baš ni jednostavna stvar. Ako ti opraštaš i opraštaš, a taj drugi i dalje radi to što radi, gdje je tu svrha... Možda bi prije bila po meni logika: Oprosti i podvuci crtu.
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Da sve ima svoj razlog to je manje-više jasno.

Mislim ipak da ima ljudi koji i svjesno nanose bol da bi oni izvukli sopstvenu korist, a dakako ima i onih koji to rade nesvjesno. Moj je problem više u tome što ne nisam spoznala kome/zašto trebam oprostiti. Dijelom i znam, ali nije to baš ni jednostavna stvar. Ako ti opraštaš i opraštaš, a taj drugi i dalje radi to što radi, gdje je tu svrha... Možda bi prije bila po meni logika: Oprosti i podvuci crtu.
Pa bas imam takav slucaj. Oprostio, ali sam svjestan da se osoba nece promjenit samo tako lako, cak ni nakon 5 godina totalne ne komunikacije.
Jednostavno neki ljudi tesko pronalaze put do saznanja sto grjese pretjerano i da nema smisla sto nanose stetu drugima. Tako najvise stete nanesu sebi
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Ti se mozes pomirit s tim da je osoba kakva je i ne vise sebe opterecivati time. Nije tvoj problem vise (nije ni bio)




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Pa bas imam takav slucaj. Oprostio, ali sam svjestan da se osoba nece promjenit samo tako lako, cak ni nakon 5 godina totalne ne komunikacije.
Jednostavno neki ljudi tesko pronalaze put do saznanja sto grjese pretjerano i da nema smisla sto nanose stetu drugima. Tako najvise stete nanesu sebi
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Ti se mozes pomirit s tim da je osoba kakva je i ne vise sebe opterecivati time. Nije tvoj problem vise (nije ni bio)
Ne treba se petljati tamo gdje ne treba. Baš tako, neke stvari i nisu naš problem.
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