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Nepročitano 04-02-12, 22:28   #1
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Ne znam da li mi se to čini ali nekako sam primjetila puno rastava medju alternativcima .
Da li je to zbog drugacijeg pogleda na svijet?( od partnera) Očekujemo vise? Tražimo slobodu?
Znam da je osjetljiva tema . Ali neka bude tu :)

( jednog dana ako se napravi zatvoreni dio foruma, mogli bi je tamo ubaciti. Vjerujem da bi bilo lakše pisati o nekim stvarima)

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Bilo je i prije rastava brakova samo što se nije toliko pričalo ,ustvari nije bilo ni mobitela ni interneta pa se vjerojatno nije trubilo na sve strane.
Po meni,ako su ljudi "normalni",sa normalnim pogledima na život (u današnje vrijeme sve manje i manje),tolerantni, nebi smijelo doći do rastave.Razgovor,šala,sex... i sve je ok.
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rastava medju alternativcima .
Da li je to zbog drugacijeg pogleda na svijet?( od partnera) Očekujemo vise? Tražimo slobodu?
Znam da je osjetljiva tema . Ali neka bude tu :)

( jednog dana ako se napravi zatvoreni dio foruma, mogli bi je tamo ubaciti. Vjerujem da bi bilo lakše pisati o nekim stvarima)
...rijetko pišem,ali sad nemogu odoliti...siguran sam da su rastave među alternativcima učestale,ali to je samo zbog drugačijeg pogleda na svijet,a možda je u pitanju i želja za većom slobodom. U svakom slučaju,ova bi tema trebala ići u zatvoreni dio foruma.
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cini mi se da je jednostavno poprilicno zasto se to desava sada u vecoj mjeri nego prije kada je drustvo bilo konzervativnije..

nekada su ljudi glumatali po 50 godina u braku radi straha sto ce okolina reci.. misliti.. kako ce prijatelji.. rodbina itd reagirati..

sada tog straha vise nema u toj kolicini i obliku.. ako si partneri pasu i nadopunjavaju se ostaju zajedno.. ako ne, ne zive svoj zivot prema ocekivanjima okoline jer su svijesni da nece okolina morati sa tom osobom potencijalno provesti ostatak zivota vec oni sami..

misljenja sam da se uz visoku dozu svijesnosti kod oba partnera sve nesuglasice i problemi mogu veoma lako nadici.. kao i igrice na relaciji ego ljubav-mrznja.. no neki ljudi su ovisni upravo o tim stanjima i njima se hrane.. tako da je tesko prekinuti taj zacarani ciklus.. i osobe utjehu traze u novim partnerima ne shvacajuci da zapravo cijelo vrijeme traze u partnerima ono sto nose i mogu pronaci samo u sebi..

tada se opet javlja nezadovoljstvo novim partnerom jer nas ni on nije "ďspunio".. pa opet ljubav-mrznja ciklus i nanovo prekid.. ili kompromisni ostanak zajedno bez potpunog zadovoljstva..

ukratko dosta tuzni scenariji.. partneri se jedno drugome svode na objekte.. kao da je rijec o kuci, automobilu, odjeci..


znam da ovakva izjava mozda nece proc bas najpopularnije.. no misljenja sam da je istinsko partnerstvo moguce samo medju svijesnim.. prosvijetljenim pojedincima.. sve ostalo je samo odnos ega sa samim sobom kroz druge.. jer druge u biti nismo u stanju ni vidjeti onakvima kakvi uistinu jesu.. sve sto vidimo su fantazije i verzije onoga sto mislimo da ta osoba jeste promatrajuci nju i sebe kroz tu hrpu ego filtera koja nam u biti ne dopusta da vidimo ni partnera, a ni sebe same onakvima kakvi esencijalno jesmo..


dok su ljudi nesvijesni biti ce i u patnji.. bez obzira kako bili materijalno situirani i kakvog partnera imali.. a onda je samo pitanje na sto ce eventualno krivnju za tu svoju patnju i nezadovoljstvo svaliti.. partnera, mjesto boravka, posao.. nesto trece.. a onda krivca naravno treba "pod svaku cijenu" mjenjati.. kako se usudjuje! :O ^^

malo je onih koji imaju hrabrosti pogledati istini u oci.. tj. mjenjati i osvijestiti aspekte sebe, suociti se sa svojim demonima.. otpustiti grceve i uroniti u more apsolutne svijesnosti.. boje se ne shvacajuci da to znaci u ljubavi i ispunjenju uzivati sve ono sto im zivot jest i u svemu onome sto im zivot donese.. makar to bile promjene lokacije stanovanja, posla, partnera itd.. istinska ljubav ima beskonacno prostora u sebi za sve manifestne verzije stvarnosti, a iz tog beskrajnog prostora izvire i sreca postojanja posto upravo beskrajan prostor dopusta novim manifestacijama i rjesenjima da dopru do nas samih..

dakle tko misli da ce partnerom il necim takvim rjesit sve svoje zivotne probleme i postati trajno sretan ceka ga grubo budjenje iz takvog sanjarenja posto to ne ovisi o nikom drugom doli nama samima..

s druge strane vjerujem da partnerstvo uistinu moze biti nesto predivno, trajno i ispunjavajuce ako nam partner ne sluzi samo kao sredstvo do nekog alternativnog cilja.. bio taj cilj materijalno, "tzv. ljubav", bijeg od neceg, bijeg ka necem, , ispunjenje, sreca ili nesto peto..

ermm.. sto je ono tema? aha!
uglavnom sve je to ok.. bez obzira na eksterne situacije.. iskustveno napredujemo i rastemo ka najvisoj svijesti i formi ljubavi.. trebamo ostati i biti zahvalni za sve sto smo ikada iskusili, a i trenutnom iskustvu.. jer kroz njega reflektira se nasa vlastita esencija.. a stalna mjena je ono sto nam na nju nepogresivo ukazuje


Uistinu, Bog je tako ljubio svijet te je dao svoga Sina Jedinorođenca da nijedan koji u njega vjeruje ne propadne, nego da ima život vječni.
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Alison, Zorica kad će taj zatvoreni dio proraditi?? :)

Uoo ovo si lijepo napisao.

Izmedju nas doma je sve ok ali vidim da imam neka preispitivanja. Da li sam u braku zbog ljubavi ili zato sto se to od nas očekuje?( volim svog muza tu je sve čisto, ali kad sam se udavala sve je bilo za druge, nismo imali vjecanje kakvo smo htjeli-samo mi i kumovi)
Sve vise vidim koliko nismo slobodni.( za svaku sitnicu sto istih papira itd) Čim pomislim na brak osjećam omcu oko vrata hahaha. Poanta: za dobar brak uopće nije potreban brak :):)
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Diana dobro si primjetila i ja imam taj dojam.
Vjerijatno se to opravdava onim : jedan partner je napredovao u samorazvoju ...
sto sam cesto slusala i bila skoro blizu u to i povjerovati,
ali...ima tu jos neka kvacica u smjeru onoga sto Uoo govori.


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Vidim da mm cupka u razvoju zamnom. Ali ide :):) i drago mi je zbog toga. Posto smo od malena programirani , zanima me da li ja lazem sama sebe u tom braku. Pitao me muž jučer zašto se ponasam kao da mi je neprijatelj... Ta me rečenica potakla na razmišljanje i na ovu temu :) brak bi trebao biti onako kako nam ga serviraju ... Da li sam slobodna u braku? Sto je uopće sloboda u braku?
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Vidim da mm cupka u razvoju zamnom. Ali ide :):) i drago mi je zbog toga.
Neka cupka,vazno je da ide- mora neko i da vodi,da bude poketac...ti odaberi smer...strpljivo...cim te pita zasto se tako ponasas,znaci da razmislja,primecuje,stalo mu je
Znas kako kazu - suprotnosti se privlace...vazna je medjusobna zelja za razumevanjem,postovanjem,a to imas-verujem.
Mislim da je vazno imati osim ljubavne, i jednu prijateljsku notu u braku...onako kako je Uoo pisao.Bez opterecenja,iskreno,otvoriti se i ocekivati isto.
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s druge strane vjerujem da partnerstvo uistinu moze biti nesto predivno, trajno i ispunjavajuce ako nam partner ne sluzi samo kao sredstvo do nekog alternativnog cilja.. bio taj cilj materijalno, "tzv. ljubav", bijeg od neceg, bijeg ka necem, , ispunjenje, sreca ili nesto peto..
Uoo,ceo post je ali ovo posebno
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Neka cupka,vazno je da ide- mora neko i da vodi,da bude poketac...ti odaberi smer...strpljivo...cim te pita zasto se tako ponasas,znaci da razmislja,primecuje,stalo mu je
Znas kako kazu - suprotnosti se privlace...vazna je medjusobna zelja za razumevanjem,postovanjem,a to imas-verujem.
Mislim da je vazno imati osim ljubavne, i jednu prijateljsku notu u braku...onako kako je Uoo pisao.Bez opterecenja,iskreno,otvoriti se i ocekivati isto.
bitno je prihvačanje i mislim da smo jako slični ali s drugačijim pogledima..mada,ide i on u mom smjeru,niti ga prisiljavam ni niš,već spontano...kako se ja mijenjam mjenja se i svijet oko mene

ne razmišljam o rastavi kao rastava zbog problema u braku. naslov je trebao biti institucija braka a ne razvod (tako da se sve obuhvati o braku)
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