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Moja malena od 3 godine je počela prije mjesec dana gristi nokte

Nitko od nas u kući to ne radi, a ne rade niti njoj bliski vršnjaci, tako da mislim da nije mogla '"od nekoga pokupiti" to ponašanje. Dakle, zaključujem da se radi o nekakvom riješavanju "neprožvakanog" stresa.

Ne znam na koji način da joj pomognem - pokušali smo s forom neka pusti da joj malko izrastu noktići pa da ćemo ih lakirati u roza. Onda ih kao nije grickala par dana ali je uzimala vrh kose pa grickala, da bi se ponovno vratila na noktiće. U svakom slučaju, nisu joj uspjeli narasti
Kad vidimo rukicu u ustima nježno ju opomenemo ili joj maknemo prste iz usta - ne radimo neku dramu od toga ali smo svjesni da nije problem u ružnoj navici nego negdje dublje.


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Moja malena od 3 godine je počela prije mjesec dana gristi nokte
Meni su mazali nokte sa nečim gorkim, pa sam tako prestao.
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L.Hay govori da je griženje noktiju uzrok frustracija,želja da pojedemo sami sebe,prkos prema jednom od roditelja.Nokti predstavljaju zaštitu.
hvala Smješko na ovoj informaciji, ali možda znak frustracije, a ne uzrok ?
Kako pomoći djetetu, naći uzrok toga?

@frust - planiram kupiti i gorki lak ali ipak bih htjela otkriti uzrok


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gorki lak?

nadam se da ne mislis na lak za nokte

mozda bi bilo dobro namazat ekstraktom grejpfrutova sjemena.. ili cesnjakom razblazenim u vodi.. isprobaj na sebi prvo naravno


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Pozdrav svima!

Moja malena od 3 godine je počela prije mjesec dana gristi nokte

Nitko od nas u kući to ne radi, a ne rade niti njoj bliski vršnjaci, tako da mislim da nije mogla '"od nekoga pokupiti" to ponašanje. Dakle, zaključujem da se radi o nekakvom riješavanju "neprožvakanog" stresa.

Inače je umiljata, vrlo živahna, borac za svoja prava, glasna. Pred kraj trudnoće sam prošla kroz dosta veliki stres, porod je bio normalan, a sa 13 mj. je imala operaciju pod općom anestezijom. Ima par alergija na hranu, ali opće zdravlje joj je inače odlično, nije bolešljiva i sl. Dojila sam ju dokle je htjela, dudu je koristila dok ju nije sama odlučila baciti u smeće. Ima naviku da svašta stavlja u usta i liže predmete, onako ''usput''

Ne znam na koji način da joj pomognem - pokušali smo s forom neka pusti da joj malko izrastu noktići pa da ćemo ih lakirati u roza. Onda ih kao nije grickala par dana ali je uzimala vrh kose pa grickala, da bi se ponovno vratila na noktiće. U svakom slučaju, nisu joj uspjeli narasti
Kad vidimo rukicu u ustima nježno ju opomenemo ili joj maknemo prste iz usta - ne radimo neku dramu od toga ali smo svjesni da nije problem u ružnoj navici nego negdje dublje.

Grickanje noktića ukazuje na duboku ljutnju( bijes) koje dijete osjeća nesvjesno. Da li u obitelji postoji član koji je je frustriran iz nekog razloga ( može ali i ne mora manifestirati ljutnju ili bijes)? Vrlo često uloge u obitelji su toliko suptilne da se nasilnik ponaša kao žrtva. Dijete osjeća nesvjesno tu emociju koja je izgleda dominantna , a premalo je da bi je drugačije ispoljilo, pa za sada gricka noktiće. Opominjanje, stalna pažnja da li gricka ili ne, upozoravanje, premazivanje svačim, mogu samo dodatno doliti ulje na vatru. Ta navika će spontano nestati onda kada se rasčiste uloge u obitelji, odnosno kada članovi obitelji o kojima je već riječ osvijeste emociju.
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Simona, misliš li da treba pustiti malu bez opominjanja da to čini sve dok se ne osvjeste neke stvari unutar obitelji, da je tako najbolje za nju?

Znam da je takav slučaj npr. s mucanjem, što sam se i sama uvjerila iz primjera jednog drugog djeteta) da je spontano prošlo kada se pažnja prestala usmjeravati na mucanje i kada su se neki odnosi u obitelji promijenili (popravili)

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Simona, misliš li da treba pustiti malu bez opominjanja da to čini sve dok se ne osvjeste neke stvari unutar obitelji, da je tako najbolje za nju?

Znam da je takav slučaj npr. s mucanjem, što sam se i sama uvjerila iz primjera jednog drugog djeteta) da je spontano prošlo kada se pažnja prestala usmjeravati na mucanje i kada su se neki odnosi u obitelji promijenili (popravili)

Hvala ti Simona
Malecka vam je blagoslov , može vas potaknuti da 'rasčistite' sve što treba u obitelji, što god to da je, ionako već vjerojatno znaš o čemu se radi . Djeca i dolaze u da bi pomogla već postojećim članovima obitelji. Samo to treba znati ( i htjeti) prepoznati....
Samo nježno sa maleckom, promatrajte možda uočite obrazac kada je nervozica više izražena, možda doba dana, i tako, malo razgovarati sa njom, djeca sve znaju...

Mucanje je također simptom blokiranosti kod djeteta, da se izrazi kakvo je, opet radi pozicije u obitelji i modela koji je usvojilo zbog obiteljske dinamike......Opominjanje i slične stvari samo otežavaju i produbljuju blokadu, djete se sve više povlači u sebe......


Biti će sve ok, puno zagrljaja, poljubaca i iskrenosti tvojoj princezi od tebe je najbolji put.....put ljubavi za dijete, a djeca to znaju prepoznati

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slozio bih se sa simonom da bi takav pristup, tj mazanje noktiju samo dolilo ulje na vatru.. i da je bolje adresirati uzrok umjesto preinaciti posljedicu iz jednog oblika u drugi.. jer dok god je uzrok tu.. bit ce i posljedice u nekakvom obliku..


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