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Nepročitano 20-10-11, 23:13   #1
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Opraštanje ima iscjeljujuću moć. Rekli su mudri: ljubav može iscijeliti cijeli svijet, ali opraštanje je katalizator za ljubav.

Puno puta smo čuli da nam netko govori "važno je oprostiti".
I mi smo često puta dali takav savjet nekome drugome.Opraštanje je vrlo važna i česta tema.

Koliko puta i kada smo mi pokušali nekome oprostiti.
Ako i jesmo kakve je to zapravo osjećaje stvorilo u nama samima.
Ponekad je vrlo teško i čini se nemoguće nekome nešto oprostiti.

Svatko tko je ikada na bilo koji način bio povrijeđen (a nema čovjeka koji nije), mora odlučiti hoće li oprostiti onome tko ga je povrijedio ili ne, bez obzira na veličinu i vrstu povrede. Ne zato što to netko traži od nas, već zato što je bez oprosta nemoguć mir.

Mnogima opraštanje može biti problem jednostavno zato što im nije baš potpuno jasno što opraštanje ustvari znači, pogrešno izjednačujući opraštanje i pomirenje.
Sve dok nekome ne oprostite vi ste povezani s tom osobom. Vaše misli će se stalno vraćati na osobu koja je pogriješila i stalno ćete iznova proživljavati tu situaciju. Emotivni link među vama ostat će toliko jak da će u vama izazivati mnogo patnje, koja će se reflektirati u vama, a u krajnjoj liniji i vi ćete biti negativni i izazivati bol ljudima s kojima ste okruženi i koji su vam dragi.

Kada oprostite oslobađate se te osobe. Kada oprostite oslobađate se agonije.Što mislite dali je to zaista tako i može li čovjek zaboraviti naneseno zlo i skupiti snage da istinski oprosti.

Nećemo se doticati Biblije i njene toliko poznate teme opraštanja.


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Kada oprostite oslobađate se te osobe. Kada oprostite oslobađate se agonije.Što mislite dali je to zaista tako i može li čovjek zaboraviti naneseno zlo i skupiti snage da istinski oprosti.
Može se,samo da odgovorim na pitanje,jer si sve drugo odlično rekla.
Mogu se oprostiti vrlo ružne stvari i biti u miru s tim i prema toj osobi,znači potpuno slobodan od štetnih emocija.

Skopčano s opraštanjem presudno je i prihvaćanje.
Kad se prokopa po situaciji kroz analizu emocija,onda dolazi do nekih spoznaja koje su potrebne da se uopće može dogoditi prihvaćanje,a onda i opraštanje.

Jako dobra tema.
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Mogu se oprostiti vrlo ružne stvari i biti u miru s tim i prema toj osobi,znači potpuno slobodan od štetnih emocija.

Skopčano s opraštanjem presudno je i prihvaćanje.
Kad se prokopa po situaciji kroz analizu emocija,onda dolazi do nekih spoznaja koje su potrebne da se uopće može dogoditi prihvaćanje,a onda i opraštanje.

Jako dobra tema.
Jedna od temeljnih tema.
Opraštamo sebi poštujući princip jednosti. Druge osobe dolaze u naše živote da nas podsjete na to.
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Opraštanje se ne može narediti

Opraštanje se ne može narediti.Napast je velika da se ljude OBVEŽE da SLOBODNO opraštaju. “Mora se oprostiti drugima”, “treba opraštati”, “zapovijed ljubavi prema neprijateljima”… Kao što se nekome ne može narediti da nekoga voli, tako se ne može ni obvezati da oprosti. Čovjek teško da može srcu zapovijedati, a oproštenje uključuje i raspoloženje srca. Stoga oproštenje uključuje i poštenje prema vlastitom srcu. Srce se ne može silom tjerati na oproštenje (voljni čin, zapovijed), ali ga se može poticati. No osobito što se može je da se srce odgaja za opraštanje, poštujući njegove ritmove i vlastitosti.


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Opraštanje vraća ukradenu moć i čini život ljepšim


Zamjerate li nekome zbog davnih grijeha, zarobljeni ste u prošlosti i nemate kontrolu nad životom, a opraštanje sebi često je najteži pothvat



Opraštanje ljudima pomaže da se riješe tereta prošlosti i krenu dalje, smatra psiholog dr. Richard Patterson, koji je glavninu svog rada posvetio baš opraštanju. Ogorčenosti se je katkad teško osloboditi jer ona pruža svojevrsni osjećaj zaštite pred ljudima koji su vas povrijedili. Međutim, oprostiti ne znači obnoviti odnose - moguće je oprostiti, a istodobno odbiti nečije društvo. Zamjerate li nekome i dalje, on nad vama ima neku moć, tvrdi Patterson. Primjerice, ako još uvijek zadrhtite čim se sjetite školskog nasilnika, on je i dalje glavni. Čim mu oprostite, vraćate moć koju vam je oteo. Često je najteže oprostiti samome sebi. Za to je potrebno mentalno se suočiti s pogreškama i odlučiti ne ponavljati ih.


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ja nemam ništa za oprostiti,mislim nikome ništa ne zamjeram,možda je takava situacija,nekad mi se čini da kao "Ja moram nekome oprostiti" kao neko egoistično stanje,razmišljam samo,
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Ne trebaš nikome oprostiti.

Bitan je taj umni segment.
Kada nekome umno oprostiš tada si oslobodio zaglavljenu energiju koja te drži u tom polju.

Uz oprost lijepo bi bilo i dati zahvalnost...
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Sto je to sto, takoreci drzi, ne mze , ne zeli
da oprosti a time drzi i patnju, bol?

To su optuzbe protiv sebe ili nekoga drugoga;
gdje se nesto lose dogodilo i sada tezimo da tu nepravdu na neki nacin ispravimo,
a istovremeno ne vjerujemo da je to moguce.
Optuzbe su uvijek pracene intenzivnim osjecajima
ogorcenosti, ljutnje pa i mrznje.
Mislimo,ukoliko bismo oprostili i time vise ne bismo osjecali fizicku
ili psihicku bol izgledalo bi kao da se to zlo(uzrok nase boli)
nije nikada ni dogodilo. Izgubilo bi na tezini.

U ovom slucaju treba nam biti jasno, da smo u prvom redu mi ,
ti koji patimo i da tome , tko je krivac za to,
mozebiti to nista ne znaci ili mozda , vise nije ni ziv.

Dozvoliti sebi biti zdrav i oprostii, ni u kom slucaju ne znaci odobravati ili pravdati pocinitelja.

Nekoga zlostavljati ili na bilo koji nacin ostetiti uvijek je pogresno i tu nema diskusije.
No, ipak sebi cu pomoci ukoliko optuzbe prema nekome (ili sebi) otpustim, oprostim.
Ne radi se o tomu , da se drugoga oslobodi , nego sebe.
U protivnom dopustam da taj netko odredjuje moj zivot, dajem mu veliku moc nad sobom.


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Ne trebaš nikome oprostiti.

Bitan je taj umni segment.
Kada nekome umno oprostiš tada si oslobodio zaglavljenu energiju koja te drži u tom polju.

Uz oprost lijepo bi bilo i dati zahvalnost...
Točno, samo se toga treba sjetiti. Da se nema što oprostiti.
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Točno, samo se toga treba sjetiti. Da se nema što oprostiti.

kako to misliš da se nema što oprostiti


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