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Nepročitano 17-02-12, 06:15   #1
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Nastojim biti open mineded prema svim ljudima koji mi ulaze u polje. Zbilja vjerujem da je sve s razlogom i smatram kako nemam predrasuda.
Nedavno sam se našla u interakciji s osobom iz miljea koji mi nešto osobno nije drag. Tu osobu sam nešto trebala... imala sam već unaprijed složen stav prema njemu i spremne argumente za polemiku ili čak konflikt - unaprijed sam odredila da razgovor neće ići u dobrom smjeru.

No... kada se je dotični pokazao kao čovjek, pun razumijevanja i poštovanja, posipala sam se pepelom po glavi, svjesna da sam očekivanja naspram njega postavila kroz predrasude i na temelju rekla-kazala.

Koliko puta vas predrasude zakoče u životu? I kakav je vaš stav prema njima?
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svako malo ulovim sebe u tom filmu...

ljudski rod dobrim dijelom tako funkcionira...

stvaramo slike o svemu, pa i ljudima, sugovornicima...

Krishnamurti je jednom rekao da moderni čovjek ne komunicira licem u lice, nego slika (predodžba) komunicira sa drugom slikom (parafraziram)...

i bio je u pravu...

s druge strane, takve nam se stvari moraju dešavati dok god ne lupimo dovoljno puta glavom o zid

većina ljudi (tu i sebe ubrajam) se osvješćuje kroz teže lekcije

a ne mora biti tako

isto tako, predodžbe o nekim ljudima mogu biti i lijepe, pa se također možemo grdo zeznuti kada nam osoba pokaže svoje pravo lice i namjere

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kada smo zaljubljeni, stvaramo najveću predodžbu/iluziju o osobi u koju smo zaljubljeni

to tek kasnije osvijestimo...ponekada prekasno

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Volim dati svakome priliku da se pokaže, ma kakav bio... moja največa zabluda je da sam bez predrasuda.

Što se tiče zaljubljenosti, ona je čarolija i tu su sve predrasude oproštene.
No... oblikovanje stava prema osobi u koju smo se zaljubili je samo jednim dijelom predrasuda - tj. sami impliciramo osobine koje želimo da dotična osoba ima - dok s druge strane i sami glumimo neke poželjne osobine.

Sad bi Beigbeder rekao: "Bio sam u pravu, bio sam u pravu!"
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Volim dati svakome priliku da se pokaže, ma kakav bio... moja največa zabluda je da sam bez predrasuda.

Što se tiče zaljubljenosti, ona je čarolija i tu su sve predrasude oproštene.
No... oblikovanje stava prema osobi u koju smo se zaljubili je samo jednim dijelom predrasuda - tj. sami impliciramo osobine koje želimo da dotična osoba ima - dok s druge strane i sami glumimo neke poželjne osobine.

Sad bi Beigbeder rekao: "Bio sam u pravu, bio sam u pravu!"
Ma ipak mislim da misliti (i u sebi to duboko osjećati ) da sam bez predrasuda ima puno bolji učinak da tako i bude...
Potvrdu nalazim u svakodnevnom zakonu privlačnosti...
No, ako nas ipak zaskoči, a hoče osvjestivši je kao takovu opet smo ju za..bali i nadvladali...
Tako da mi zabluda kao riječ zvuči malo grubo prema samoj sebi, no i kao takova opet je pomogla oko osvješćivanja dotične nepogode definirane kao predrasuda...

Zaljubljenost je stanje koje uz sebe nosi najmanje predrasuda naprosto iz razloga da ti leptirići u stomaku nedaju vremena za njih...
Ma i o stavu bi mogla reći da je tad uzdrman ko da je potres...
Tek kad stanje zaljubljenosti prođe onda tek stavovi i predrasude počinju igrati svoje igre
Usudila bih se reči da je pojava predrasude proporcionalna stupnju uvjetovanosti u određenom trenutku u životu...a doskočiti joj i nije baš tako lako


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Mislim da nisam od open mind ljudi i sebi bih rado dala jedan

Moj prvi susret s alternativom je bio pun predrasuda i za mene su svi alternativci bili šarlatani dok se ne dokaže suprotno.
Ovo je bila jedna ogromna zabluda s moje strane jer su mi upravo mnogi alternativci priskočili u pomoć.
Ponekad se pitam koliko predrasuda još imam a da ih nisam svjesna


razbijte sve svoje iluzije kako biste ih mogli zamijeniti novima



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Mislim da nisam od open mind ljudi i sebi bih rado dala jedan

Moj prvi susret s alternativom je bio pun predrasuda i za mene su svi alternativci bili šarlatani dok se ne dokaže suprotno.
Ovo je bila jedna ogromna zabluda s moje strane jer su mi upravo mnogi alternativci priskočili u pomoć.
Ponekad se pitam koliko predrasuda još imam a da ih nisam svjesna
Svaka čast na iskrenosti.

Kod mene baš suprotno, bila sam otvorena prema alternativi i imala sam loše iskustvo s "iscjeliteljem".
No, s alternativcima s ovog foruma imam predivna iskustva... međutim, do toga je došlo zbog povjerenja u njih kao u ljude, a manje zbog povjerenja u alternativu.
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Svaka čast na iskrenosti.

Kod mene baš suprotno, bila sam otvorena prema alternativi i imala sam loše iskustvo s "iscjeliteljem".
No, s alternativcima s ovog foruma imam predivna iskustva... međutim, do toga je došlo zbog povjerenja u njih kao u ljude, a manje zbog povjerenja u alternativu.
Tebi svaka čast na hrabrosti.
Imala si loše iskustvo i mogla si se zatvoriti prema cjelokupnoj alternativi no nisi,
izabrala si dati još mnogo šansi i naišla si na divne ljude.

Imale smo različite polazišne točke al smo otkrile istu stvar (toplu vodu očito)


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...... međutim, do toga je došlo zbog povjerenja u njih kao u ljude, a manje zbog povjerenja u alternativu.


Ovdje možeš vidjeti svoj napredak koji naizgled nije mjerljiv i vidljiv ......Imaš sve više povjerenja u sebe( jer si si dozvolila da se sve više upoznaješ), drugi ljudi su samo potvrda toga......
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Nastojim biti open mineded prema svim ljudima koji mi ulaze u polje.
Dok nastojiš, nisi open mind....hehe.
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