Alternativa Forum

Potreba za partnerom

Ovo je diskusija na temu Potreba za partnerom u podforumu Duhovnost
Ne znam gdje bih prigodnije, pa ću staviti ovdje - tematski ...

Natrag   Alternativa Forum > Metafizika i duhovnost > Duhovnost

Alternativa Forum


Duhovnost Duhovni put

Odgovor
LinkBack Opcije Teme Način Prikaza
Nepročitano 16-07-15, 14:23   #21
Dandapani
 
Jesam's Avatar
 
Datum registracije: Mar 2011
Postovi: 14,041
Jesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond repute
Jesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond repute
Zadani

Ne znam gdje bih prigodnije, pa ću staviti ovdje - tematski jeste srodno:

10 predivnih stvari koje će vam se dogoditi kada naučite uživati u samoći

Neki ljudi misle da je “biti sam” loša stvar. Oni to tumače da ste anti-socijalni ili da ste nepoželjni, a ništa od toga nije dobra pozicija za vas. Ali, zapravo, biti sam nije nužno loša stvar, jer postoje mnoge pogodnosti koje dolaze kada naučite prihvatiti samoću.

Samotnost Je Jedini Istinski Lijek Za Osamljenost
Samoća je Umjetnost – Nisargadatta Maharaj

Više ovdje:

http://2012-transformacijasvijesti.c...ivati-u-samoci


slobodni.net za slobodni svijet



Podijeli post!

Jesam je offline   Reply With Quote
Hvala na korisnom postu!
dido (17-07-15), Moldercuker (16-07-15), ne znam (17-07-15), Stepski Vuk (16-07-15)

Nepročitano 16-07-15, 15:04   #22
Onkraj razuma...
 
Stepski Vuk's Avatar
 
Datum registracije: Jun 2012
Lokacija: Aquarius u oblacima
Postovi: 737
Stepski Vuk has a reputation beyond reputeStepski Vuk has a reputation beyond reputeStepski Vuk has a reputation beyond reputeStepski Vuk has a reputation beyond reputeStepski Vuk has a reputation beyond reputeStepski Vuk has a reputation beyond reputeStepski Vuk has a reputation beyond repute
Stepski Vuk has a reputation beyond reputeStepski Vuk has a reputation beyond reputeStepski Vuk has a reputation beyond repute
Zadani

Pročitao sam cijeli tekst, ima puno istine u tim riječima. Osobno, isprobao sam oba modela, ako smijem tako kazati.

Sve ima svoje prednosti i mane - ponekad nam je potrebna duboka i dugotrajna samoća da bi se regenerirali iz ovog ili onog razloga. S druge strane, ponekad su nam potrebna i "ogromna društva", "mase" i "svjetla pozornice" kako bi se potvrdili kao posebnost u "čoporu".

Osobno smatram da je svatko od nas samo polovica kruga i cijeli smo život iskonski programirani da tražimo svoju drugu polovicu kako bi se krug zatvorio, bili toga svjesni ili ne.

Samo vrlo mali broj ljudi uspije pronaći idealnu polovicu kruga koja se skoro savršeno uklapa, obično to bude nasilno nakalemljeno jedno na drugo te više liči na neki apstraktni višekutnik nego na krug, slikovito rečeno.

U takvim situacijama svakako je bolja varijanta biti sam nego stvarati dvostruke negativne expresije.


"...U životu treba mudro da šutiš
Al' riječ ako rekneš
Neka bude teška kao svaka
ISTINA
Neka bude rečena za
Čovjeka..."



Podijeli post!

Stepski Vuk je offline   Reply With Quote
Hvala na korisnom postu!
JANG (17-07-15), Jesam (16-07-15), Moldercuker (16-07-15)
Nepročitano 16-07-15, 15:29   #23
Dandapani
 
Jesam's Avatar
 
Datum registracije: Mar 2011
Postovi: 14,041
Jesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond repute
Jesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond repute
Zadani

Mudro zboriš Vuče ... baš to i sama osjećam na svojoj koži. Samoća mi je jako potrebna da se regeneriram, da obnovim energiju, da se povežem sama sa sobom ... ali volim i društvo, iako omjer je u mom slučaju negdje 80:20 - u korist samoće. Ovih 20% mi je predovoljno da zadovoljim potrebu za socijalnim kontaktom.


slobodni.net za slobodni svijet



Podijeli post!

Jesam je offline   Reply With Quote
Hvala na korisnom postu!
Moldercuker (16-07-15), Stepski Vuk (17-07-15)
Nepročitano 17-07-15, 08:26   #24
Guru
 
teemo's Avatar
 
Datum registracije: May 2009
Postovi: 3,139
teemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond repute
teemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond repute
Pošalji poruku preko Skype™ za teemo
Zadani

Mi, jednostavno imamo ljudsku potrebu biti povezani sa drugima
a istovremeno i biti slobodni, neovisni, samostalni, autenticni.
Kako to postici je druga prica ...

O monogamiji:

"Može se mnogo toga reći o monogamiji. To je najbolji simbol za Jedno, jer drži vaš um usmjeren na jednu primarnu osobu. Vi samo treba da razriješite sve u vezi sa njom, svaku priču koja se pojavi u vašem umu. Monogamija je sveta stvar jer omogućava umu da bude jako miran u toj ulozi. Jedna osoba će vam dati iskustvo koje bi vam moglo dati milion ljudi. Postoji samo jedan um. Vaš partner će iznijeti na vidjelo sve misli znane čovječanstvu, u svakoj kombinaciji, tako da biste vi mogli spoznati sebe. Ako samo uspijete da naučite da volite vašeg partnera, upoznaćete i ljubav prema samom sebi." Byron Katie

p.s. samo treba istrpjeti sto bi rekao Molder, k'o u komunizmu.


...umnozi l`se blago ,
nek vam srce za nj ne prione . Ps, 62,11



Podijeli post!

teemo je offline   Reply With Quote
Hvala na korisnom postu!
Jesam (17-07-15), ne znam (17-07-15), Stepski Vuk (17-07-15)
Nepročitano 17-07-15, 09:39   #25
Dandapani
 
Jesam's Avatar
 
Datum registracije: Mar 2011
Postovi: 14,041
Jesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond repute
Jesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond repute
Zadani

Citat:
Originally Posted by teemo Pogledaj Post

"Može se mnogo toga reći o monogamiji. To je najbolji simbol za Jedno, jer drži vaš um usmjeren na jednu primarnu osobu. Vi samo treba da razriješite sve u vezi sa njom, svaku priču koja se pojavi u vašem umu. Monogamija je sveta stvar jer omogućava umu da bude jako miran u toj ulozi. Jedna osoba će vam dati iskustvo koje bi vam moglo dati milion ljudi. Postoji samo jedan um. Vaš partner će iznijeti na vidjelo sve misli znane čovječanstvu, u svakoj kombinaciji, tako da biste vi mogli spoznati sebe. Ako samo uspijete da naučite da volite vašeg partnera, upoznaćete i ljubav prema samom sebi." Byron Katie

p.s. samo treba istrpjeti sto bi rekao Molder, k'o u komunizmu.
Ne vidim zašto bi trebalo išta "istrpjeti"?

Tko nam je nametnuo tu paradigmu nužnog žrtvovanja?


slobodni.net za slobodni svijet



Podijeli post!

Jesam je offline   Reply With Quote
Hvala na korisnom postu!
chameleon (17-07-15), qiqe (17-07-15), Stepski Vuk (17-07-15)
Nepročitano 17-07-15, 09:55   #26
Guru
 
teemo's Avatar
 
Datum registracije: May 2009
Postovi: 3,139
teemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond repute
teemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond reputeteemo has a reputation beyond repute
Pošalji poruku preko Skype™ za teemo
Zadani

Citat:
Originally Posted by Jesam Pogledaj Post
Ne vidim zašto bi trebalo išta "istrpjeti"?

Tko nam je nametnuo tu paradigmu nužnog žrtvovanja?
Citat:
Originally Posted by teemo Pogledaj Post
Vaš partner će iznijeti na vidjelo sve misli znane čovječanstvu, u svakoj kombinaciji, tako da biste vi mogli spoznati sebe. Ako samo uspijete da naučite da volite vašeg partnera, upoznaćete i ljubav prema samom sebi." Byron Katie
Polazim od 'normalnog' partnerstva bez nasilja bilo koje vrste, psihopata...
i ako se slozim sa ovim citatom onda to 'spoznati sebe' kroz
partnera ( kao ucitelja, ogledalo) ne ide ruk-cuk, nego je proces a on zna biti ponekad i neugodan kada se ruse neka svoja uvjerenja, ocekivanja, bla, bla... i sve sto ide uz to.


...umnozi l`se blago ,
nek vam srce za nj ne prione . Ps, 62,11



Podijeli post!

teemo je offline   Reply With Quote
Hvala na korisnom postu!
Jesam (17-07-15), ne znam (17-07-15), Stepski Vuk (17-07-15)
Nepročitano 17-07-15, 14:58   #27
Dandapani
 
Jesam's Avatar
 
Datum registracije: Mar 2011
Postovi: 14,041
Jesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond repute
Jesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond repute
Zadani Mooji govori o potrebi za partnerom




slobodni.net za slobodni svijet



Podijeli post!

Jesam je offline   Reply With Quote
Nepročitano 17-07-15, 15:00   #28
Dandapani
 
Jesam's Avatar
 
Datum registracije: Mar 2011
Postovi: 14,041
Jesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond repute
Jesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond repute
Zadani Mooji govori o potrebi da budemo voljeni

''Možeš li zamisliti takvo mjesto gdje nemaš potrebu biti voljen? To je veoma tiho mjesto. Tu tvoja Ljubav postaje jako otvorena, jako prostrana, predivna i jaka'' (Mooji)


slobodni.net za slobodni svijet



Podijeli post!

Jesam je offline   Reply With Quote
Nepročitano 17-07-15, 15:05   #29
Dandapani
 
Jesam's Avatar
 
Datum registracije: Mar 2011
Postovi: 14,041
Jesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond repute
Jesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond reputeJesam has a reputation beyond repute
Zadani Mooji - Odnosi i veze

Ako unaprijed imate sliku toga kako bi stvari trebale biti to je već neka vrsta ustajalosti i nefleksibilnosti. To je dobra osnova za katastrofu, jer nikada to nećete dobiti na način na koji to zamišljate u umu, kroz svoje projekcije, fantazije ili maštu. Ako namjestite svoju metu samo na novac, djecu, kuću, vrlo brzo ove su želje ispunjene, ali nakon toga vi niste ispunjeni. Nakon toga vi samo nastavljate i to postane monotono, jer niste svjesni da postoje šire, beskonačno šire regije nego ovo. (Mooji)


slobodni.net za slobodni svijet



Podijeli post!

Jesam je offline   Reply With Quote
Nepročitano 17-07-15, 15:19   #30
padanormalan
 
chameleon's Avatar
 
Datum registracije: Jul 2011
Lokacija: prva desno poslije skretanja
Postovi: 12,418
chameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond repute
chameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond reputechameleon has a reputation beyond repute
Zadani

Citat:
Originally Posted by teemo Pogledaj Post
Mi, jednostavno imamo ljudsku potrebu biti povezani sa drugima
a istovremeno i biti slobodni, neovisni, samostalni, autenticni.
Kako to postici je druga prica ...
Slažem se.

Citat:
Originally Posted by teemo Pogledaj Post
O monogamiji:

"Može se mnogo toga reći o monogamiji. To je najbolji simbol za Jedno, jer drži vaš um usmjeren na jednu primarnu osobu. Vi samo treba da razriješite sve u vezi sa njom, svaku priču koja se pojavi u vašem umu. Monogamija je sveta stvar jer omogućava umu da bude jako miran u toj ulozi. Jedna osoba će vam dati iskustvo koje bi vam moglo dati milion ljudi. Postoji samo jedan um. Vaš partner će iznijeti na vidjelo sve misli znane čovječanstvu, u svakoj kombinaciji, tako da biste vi mogli spoznati sebe. Ako samo uspijete da naučite da volite vašeg partnera, upoznaćete i ljubav prema samom sebi." Byron Katie

p.s. samo treba istrpjeti sto bi rekao Molder, k'o u komunizmu.
Trud ima smisla ako se pokazuju rezultati u razumnom vremenu.
Zašto bi se trebali zavjetovati na doživotnu borbu za ostvarivanje svojih želja ako bi to bez borbe mogli ostvariti sa drugom osobom?

To je kao da ideš uporno žličicom tovarit kamion sa zemljom umjesto da uzmeš lopatu.


Stone



Podijeli post!

chameleon je offline   Reply With Quote
chameleon, hvala ti na korisnom postu!
Jesam (17-07-15)
Odgovor

Opcije Teme
Način Prikaza

Pravila Pisanja Postova
Vi ne možete otvoriti novu temu
Vi ne možete odgovarati na postove
Vi ne možete pridružiti datoteku
Vi ne možete editirati Vaše postove

BB kod je On
Smajlići su On
[IMG] kod je On
HTML kod je Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On



Vremenska Zona je GMT +1. Trenutno je 03:01 sati.





Iz ponude izdvajamo:











Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.1
Copyright ©2000 - 2020, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.3.0