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Najvećim uspjehom kod sebe smatram to što vrlo brzo osvjestim (kad me netko ili nešto izbaci iz cipela) u čemu je kvaka, a rezultat toga je da mi više ništa ne može pokvariti cijeli dan ili nekoliko dana....svelo se na vrlo malo vremena (sat, dva....i idemo dalje)
Da, to je najbolje od svega.


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Odel,naslov ti daje odgovor.
Kao prvo,moras prihvatiti da su ti ljudi takvi kakvi jesu i ta njihova traljavost najvise problema zadaje njima samima.

Zapitaj se sto ti ta njihova traljavost nudi tj pokazuje,jer sve sto ti se dogadja kao prvo je vanjski odraz tebe same iznura a kao drugo taj događaj ti nudi neku lekciju koju moras savladati.

Ja npr imam posla sa dvije stvari koje mi ova stvarnost nudi i koje sam prepoznao:
1) rjesit se nekog bijesa kojeg nosim.
2)prestat gledat sto drugi misle i imat vjere u svoje sposobnosti.

Znam da te ti ljudi ljute,ali razmisli sto ti oni,tj koji dar ti nude,tako ce ti sve u zivotu bit lakse.
Jako dobro rečeno.

Predviđanje ponašanja i uočavanja pravila (po kojima funkcioniraju ljudi koji nas ljute) može dovesti do lakšeg razumjevanja i prihvaćanja istih, jer se jednostavno emotivno odvojimo i pripremimo unaprijed. Ne moramo se slagati sa njihovim zaključcima, već se postavljamo "stepenicu iznad", i imamo kontrolu nad situacijom.


"Najviša dobrota i velikodušnost je: da obilaziš onoga tko tebe ne obilazi; da dadneš onome koji je tebe odbio, i da oprostiš onome tko je tebi nepravdu učinio." - Poslanik s.a.v.s.



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Moram priznati ovakve teme su doista važne,svako toliko potaknu tj prisjete čovjeka na neko obećanje dano sebi da će poradit na neku određenu stvar na sebi.
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Moram priznati ovakve teme su doista važne,svako toliko potaknu tj prisjete čovjeka na neko obećanje dano sebi da će poradit na neku određenu stvar na sebi.
Istina, pomažu pri osvještavanju mentalnih obrazaca koje večemo sa sobom, a nismo ih često ni svjesni.

A mislim da ni ne moram spominjati koliko zna biti loše kad nismo svjesni sami sebe... u stanju smo si život učiniti teškim, zakomplicirati ga na n-tu potenciju.


"Najviša dobrota i velikodušnost je: da obilaziš onoga tko tebe ne obilazi; da dadneš onome koji je tebe odbio, i da oprostiš onome tko je tebi nepravdu učinio." - Poslanik s.a.v.s.



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Mene su užasno nervirali neradnici. Još i zato što ih je toliko da iskrive sliku o profesionalnosti, pa, ako jesi profesionalac, ispadneš aždaja koja svoj posao shvata pretjerano ozbiljno.

I nije meni smetalo šta oni misle, već što su, godinama dosljedno, unižavali profesiju i karikirali je, pa je onda takav radni milje meni pravio probleme. Napravili su da nenormalne stvari budu normalne, pa je ono što sam ja radila (zakonski normalno) bilo nenormalno. (Može se slično reći za mnoge društvene i razne druge pojave na ovdašnjim prostorima).

Onda sam shvatila da ja, bez izuzetka, bez obzira što sam pravno, moralno, i kako god još, u pravu, osuđujem te ljude i da im kod mene spasa nema. Ajme, koje nasilje s moje strane!!! Ako ja sebi dopuštam da budem neozbiljna po pitanju sopstvenog zdravlja, po sopstvenom izboru, recimo, odakle mi pravo da ne dopuštam njima da budu neozbiljni gdje god hoće, po svom izboru??? I sad je moj izbor "jači" od njihovog??? Kako da ne!

Ne mislim ovim da se ljudima dopušta da ugrožavaju nekog, samo da im se izbor dozvoli, u smislu razumijevanja, bez osude. Osuda je uvijek neuklapanje nekog u sopstveni sistem vjerovanja. Pa ako imam pravo razumjeti sebe, jednko i ovi drugi imaju pravo na razumijevanje

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I tako me više neradnici ne nerviraju, puštam ih da žive
A ja, šta ćeš?! Vidjela i ja da nema ništa od nerviranja i da ti neradnici prolaze bolje od mene, pa sam se i ja naučila zabušavati i praviti jako zaposlena ... to je ono tipično trčkanje po hodnicima s histeričnim pogledom, hrpom fascikala pod miškom a stol pun rasutih tablica, grafova, uredbi, zakona .... a ja lijepo piskaram na Alternativi usred sveg tog kaosa i još me svi žale jer čim netko uđe na vrata, ja izbečenih očiju već vičem: ... NE STIGNEEEM!!!, vidiš da sam zatrpana, puf-pant!
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A ja, šta ćeš?! Vidjela i ja da nema ništa od nerviranja i da ti neradnici prolaze bolje od mene, pa sam se i ja naučila zabušavati i praviti jako zaposlena ... to je ono tipično trčkanje po hodnicima s histeričnim pogledom, hrpom fascikala pod miškom a stol pun rasutih tablica, grafova, uredbi, zakona .... a ja lijepo piskaram na Alternativi usred sveg tog kaosa i još me svi žale jer čim netko uđe na vrata, ja izbečenih očiju već vičem: ... NE STIGNEEEM!!!, vidiš da sam zatrpana, puf-pant!

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A ja, šta ćeš?! Vidjela i ja da nema ništa od nerviranja i da ti neradnici prolaze bolje od mene, pa sam se i ja naučila zabušavati i praviti jako zaposlena ... to je ono tipično trčkanje po hodnicima s histeričnim pogledom, hrpom fascikala pod miškom a stol pun rasutih tablica, grafova, uredbi, zakona .... a ja lijepo piskaram na Alternativi usred sveg tog kaosa i još me svi žale jer čim netko uđe na vrata, ja izbečenih očiju već vičem: ... NE STIGNEEEM!!!, vidiš da sam zatrpana, puf-pant!
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Neznamica je ipak najbliže točnom odgovoru - ne pretjerujem više i nastojim se ne uzrujavati jer me je često taj stres koštao zdravlja a nikakav poseban trud i zalaganje mi se nisu vratili dobrim niti sam za njih nagrađena. Dapače, napredovali su pokraj mene najveći neradnici i ignoranti, što me u početku bacalo iz cipela ali onda sam shvatila svu istinitost Murphijevog zakona i Peterovog načela - ti ljudi napreduju zato da ih se makne s onih pozicija gdje trebaju sposobni radnici - da ne smetaju. Strašno i tužno ali u potpunosti istinito - dokazano nebrojeno puta u mojih 30 godina radnog staža.

I sada imam nadređenog koji pojma o pojmu nema - doslovno!!! Ali je glasan za troje i razbacuje se s nekoliko naučenih frazetina i pametnih izraza.

Što je najbolje i naša uprava to zna ali mu tepaju - kao, pametan je ali je lijen, hi-hi, he-he ...! Mislim, WTF!!!

Jedino za što je jako sposoban je delegiranje, nestajanje u vidu dima, eskiviranje svojih obveza i blebetanje (a i cuganje).
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