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Nepročitano 11-08-14, 12:06   #1
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Zadani "Hvala ti na lekciji!"

Promatrajte kako vaš um osuđuje. Osude dolaze dijelom iz vašeg osobnog straha. Prosuđujete druge ljude jer niste opušteni u svom vlastitom bivanju. Osuđivanjem vi zapravo procjenjujete kako stojite u odnosu sa drugim ljudima.

Um koji osuđuje je jako dualističan! On razdvaja, a odvojenost zatvara vaše srce. Ako zatvorite svoje srce prema nekome vi cementirate vašu patnju, ali i njihovu. Odustajanje od osuda znači naučiti cijeniti vaše životne poteškoće, kao i njihove – otvorena srca, umjesto preko osuđivanja. Tada možete dozvoliti sebi i drugima da samo budete, bez razdvojenosti.

Jedina predstava koja se tu odvija je igra Bivanja koja u sebi ima oboje – i uspone i padove. Svaki put kada nešto odgurnete po strani, ono ostane tamo. Ta gomila s vremenom naraste vrlo velika! Vaši padovi tada postanu zanimljiviji nego vaši usponi jer vam oni pokazuju ono što nemate, na čemu trebate raditi.

Samo recite: “Hvala ti na lekciji!” Nema potrebe osuđivati druga bića. Ono što je potrebno jest rad na sebi.

Kada vas netko isprovocira na ljutnju, jedini razlog vašeg bijesa je u tome što se držite za svoje mišljenje kakav bi netko trebao biti. Vi ste u negiranju kakvim stvari jesu. Tada ćete uvidjeti da su ustvari, očekivanja vašeg uma ta koja vam život pretvaraju u pakao! Kada postanete frustrirani jer nešto nije onako kakvim ste zamislili, promotrite i vaše misli koje su prethodile, ne samo stvar koja vas je iz-frustrirala.


Vidjeti ćete da je veliki dio emocionalne patnje stvoren vašim modelom kojeg ste stvorili u projekcijama kakav bi trebao biti univerzum, kao i zbog vaše nesposobnosti da dopustite univerzumu da bude takvim kakav jest.


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Ljudi se sigurno u našim životima ne pojavljuju slučajno.

Neki su tu da nam ukažu da li smo na pravom ili pogrešnom putu, neki da nas podstaknu da pronađemo sebe i sledimo svoje snove, neki dođu baš kada ih trebamo i ostanu duuuugo, verovatno ceo život, a neki su u prolazu i samo prenose poruke Života.

Svi oni dolaze i odlaze s razlogom.

Ako odlaze iz naših života , verovatno su izvršili svoj zadatak. Često puta se nije lako pomiriti sa njihovim odlaskom, pustiti ih i krenuti dalje bez njih, ali svako biće ima slobodu otići ili ostati.

Svaki čovek nam može biti učitelj, čak i oni ljudi koji nas neizrecivo povrede i razočaraju. Upravo, baš ti isti ljudi imaju velik uticaj na naš život, zbog njih učimo o sebi i o svojoj snazi, hrabrosti i mudrosti. Oni nas menjaju, podstiču da rastemo duhom i navode da tražimo svoj jedinstveni životni put. Ti ljudi su naše lekcije, naša škola života.

Najveća je mudrost naučiti pustiti da nas uče, dozvoliti sebi spoznaju koja je to lekcija koja je trebala biti kroz njih naučena i zatvoriti jedan životni krug. U takvom procesu nema osude, jer smo osvešteni da se sve odvija zbog nas, zbog našeg sazrevanja, učenja i duhovnog napretka. Nema niti ljutnje zbog nečijih postupaka ili ponašanja, jer ljutnja uništava i razdire, a prihvaćanje lekcije oslobađa.
Kada počnemo gledati život i ljude na taj način, oslobođeni emocija koje nas uništavaju, život nam postaje mnogo lepši, a ljubav prema životu i ljudima oko nas sve veća.

Pa me zanima, da li i kako prihvatite ljude oko sebe:
kao svoje lekcije, svoje učitelje, dopuštate im da vas vode prema onom najboljem u vama, prema poštovanju sebe i drugih, kao i prema ljubavi prema životu? ili?


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Odlična tema,pratim napredak
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Ne mogu a da se ne ljutim na ljude koji me svakog tjedna nanovo naživciraju svojom traljavošću,nažalost moram raditi i s njima,ali kad nema koraka prema poboljšanju nego se radi jednako bezvoljno i aljkavo i pritom mi bespotrebno oduzimaju moje vrijeme i živce-kako da se ne ljutim???Sterala bi ih u neku stvar,najradije
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Odel,naslov ti daje odgovor.
Kao prvo,moras prihvatiti da su ti ljudi takvi kakvi jesu i ta njihova traljavost najvise problema zadaje njima samima.

Zapitaj se sto ti ta njihova traljavost nudi tj pokazuje,jer sve sto ti se dogadja kao prvo je vanjski odraz tebe same iznura a kao drugo taj događaj ti nudi neku lekciju koju moras savladati.

Ja npr imam posla sa dvije stvari koje mi ova stvarnost nudi i koje sam prepoznao:
1) rjesit se nekog bijesa kojeg nosim.
2)prestat gledat sto drugi misle i imat vjere u svoje sposobnosti.

Znam da te ti ljudi ljute,ali razmisli sto ti oni,tj koji dar ti nude,tako ce ti sve u zivotu bit lakse.
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Tema ti je odlična. Ovakav pristup sam poprilično usvojila, primjenjujem ga. Iz vlastitog iskustva vam mogu reći da savršeno funkcionira, da mi je mnogo toga uspjelo olakšati, riješiti, promijeniti.




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Ljudi se sigurno u našim životima ne pojavljuju slučajno.

Svi oni dolaze i odlaze s razlogom.

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Pa me zanima, da li i kako prihvatite ljude oko sebe:
kao svoje lekcije, svoje učitelje, dopuštate im da vas vode prema onom najboljem u vama, prema poštovanju sebe i drugih, kao i prema ljubavi prema životu? ili?
Svakako jedna od najtežih životnih lekcija.

Samo osvještavanje ovog pitanja je već dobar početak rješavanja. Čim se počinjemo preispitivati, čim počinjemo postavljati pitanja, već smo puno napravili.

Mislim da sam dosta napredovala, iako me naravno još ponekad nešto izbaci iz cipela, no i tada, bez obzira na vlastitu reakciju, kad se smirim zapitam se što je to zapravo trebalo značiti i koja je moja lekcija, što sam iz toga trebala naučiti. Stvar je u tome što mi je često jako teško zaključiti o čemu se radi - a onda se te lekcije nažalost ponavljaju, sve dok ne naučimo ono što smo trebali shvatiti.


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Svakako jedna od najtežih životnih lekcija.

Samo osvještavanje ovog pitanja je već dobar početak rješavanja. Čim se počinjemo preispitivati, čim počinjemo postavljati pitanja, već smo puno napravili.

Mislim da sam dosta napredovala, iako me naravno još ponekad nešto izbaci iz cipela, no i tada, bez obzira na vlastitu reakciju, kad se smirim zapitam se što je to zapravo trebalo značiti i koja je moja lekcija, što sam iz toga trebala naučiti. Stvar je u tome što mi je često jako teško zaključiti o čemu se radi - a onda se te lekcije nažalost ponavljaju, sve dok ne naučimo ono što smo trebali shvatiti.
Isto. Samo sada posve drugačije gledam na problem. Kada ne znam razlog....prepustim se. Već će odgovor doći. I dođe. Primjenjujući ovaj način riješila sam se velike negative u sebi. Više ne krivim ljude, svijet, manje sam nervozna, opterećena a puno više mirna i nasmijana. Prije sam odgovor čekala zabrinuta, napeta i nestrpljiva....sada ga čekam mirna, opuštena i strpljivo.
Najvećim uspjehom kod sebe smatram to što vrlo brzo osvjestim (kad me netko ili nešto izbaci iz cipela) u čemu je kvaka, a rezultat toga je da mi više ništa ne može pokvariti cijeli dan ili nekoliko dana....svelo se na vrlo malo vremena (sat, dva....i idemo dalje)




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Ne mogu a da se ne ljutim na ljude koji me svakog tjedna nanovo naživciraju svojom traljavošću,nažalost moram raditi i s njima,ali kad nema koraka prema poboljšanju nego se radi jednako bezvoljno i aljkavo i pritom mi bespotrebno oduzimaju moje vrijeme i živce-kako da se ne ljutim???Sterala bi ih u neku stvar,najradije
Možda te samo svaki puta podsjećaju da se makneš od njih.
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