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Nepročitano 27-02-12, 17:45   #1
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Moj suprug je ovisan o internet pornografiji u toj mjeri da je izvan toga nema nikakvu potrebu za seksom.
Ta ovisnost se razvijala godinama ali je u zadnje vrijeme izgubio kontrolu,održava svoj paraleli život na svojekakvim sex portalima,pri suočavanju sa očitim pobijesni i totalno ignorira problem.
Nadam se da netko ima kakav pametan savjet koji bi mi pomogao
(osim onog da biježim glavim bez obzira)
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Moj suprug je ovisan o internet pornografiji u toj mjeri da je izvan toga nema nikakvu potrebu za seksom.
Ta ovisnost se razvijala godinama ali je u zadnje vrijeme izgubio kontrolu,održava svoj paraleli život na svojekakvim sex portalima,pri suočavanju sa očitim pobijesni i totalno ignorira problem.
Nadam se da netko ima kakav pametan savjet koji bi mi pomogao
(osim onog da biježim glavim bez obzira)
Dati ti realno koristan savet, nije lako.
ne znam da li si pokušala da ga navedeš da poseti stručno lice?
On praktični ima "poremećaj zavisnosti-ovisnosti" i ne može sam izaći iz toga, ni na jedan način, bez pomoći sa strane. Taj njegov imaginarni svet za njega je previše "realan i privlačan", i on ga ne doživljava kao drugi sa objktivne strane, već iz njegovog ugla.

Uvek postoji način, ali je složen.
Ne mogu ti dati konkretan savet, jer je neophodno znati do koje mere i na koji način on ima "problem".
Ono najvažnije je sledeće-moraš biti oštra, uporna i konkretna, ili ga nećeš izvući iz toga.

Šta to znači, i sama možeš da pretpostaviš.





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Nadam se da netko ima kakav pametan savjet koji bi mi pomogao
(osim onog da biježim glavim bez obzira)
reci mu da ćeš si bit primorana nać ljubavnika ako on ne ostavi svoje virtualne ljubavnice.


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reci mu da ćeš si bit primorana nać ljubavnika ako on ne ostavi svoje virtualne ljubavnice.
ili još bolje ljubavnicu... možda mu se probudi mašta za stvarnost....


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Nadam se da netko ima kakav pametan savjet koji bi mi pomogao
(osim onog da biježim glavim bez obzira)
prije nego što zbrišeš, kupi haltere

...ako ne pomognu kod muža, dobro će doć kod ljubavnika. Neće bit bačen novac, ne'moš fulat.


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Moj suprug je ovisan o internet pornografiji u toj mjeri da je izvan toga nema nikakvu potrebu za seksom.
Ta ovisnost se razvijala godinama ali je u zadnje vrijeme izgubio kontrolu,održava svoj paraleli život na svojekakvim sex portalima,pri suočavanju sa očitim pobijesni i totalno ignorira problem.
Nadam se da netko ima kakav pametan savjet koji bi mi pomogao
(osim onog da biježim glavim bez obzira)

kao sto olio kaze nije lako reci.. mi mozemo nagadati ali ti ces ga morati pitati lijepo da li ga i sto zaista muci,mogu reci da mislim da mu nesto nedostaje u zivotu,ali posto ne znam kakva je inace osoba ne bih znao sto nadomjestava..
seksualni nagon i energiju je tesko kontrolirati,pogotovo kada osoba ne shvaca da ima problem,a cak i onda.
tu njegovu energiju koju tako gubi bi bilo dobro preusmjeriti na nesto drugo dok se ne uravnotezi,fizicka aktivnost i promjena prehrane moze pomoci al ne znam koliko.
nesto drugo sto voli raditi,mozda nade nacin opustanja kroz masaze (tvoje po mogucnosti ).
ako nije svjestan prvo sto treba je da shvati da tebi fali. zabrane tu nece pomoci,mora sam odluciti da to ne zeli vise i da za to nade razlog,barem ne u pretjerivanju.
ne usudujem se govoriti o vasem odnosu inace,al trebat ce naci nesto da se povezes s njime da osjeti da ti moze povjeriti taj dio sebe. al budi svjesna da to ne ovisi samo o tebi i tvojem trudu,do nekih se ne moze doprijeti lako,nadam se da to nije slucaj.


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Ovo što ću reći, neće mi služiti na čast.Ali ću ipak izreći.

Meni se čini da on treba doživjeti jedno veliko razočarenje na tom portalu, forumu ili što već....
Tek će tad shvatiti da je to daleko od onoga što je mislio da jest...

http://www.nur-islam.com/index.php?o...uke&Itemid=146

Kako pripremiti teren za razočarenje, o tome dalje neću....

Stvar je u tome da ljudi ne razumiju kolika je snaga riječi.
Ja to uvijek ponavljam................

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Ostaje ti guslati po svome a ne priklanjati se njegovim željama koje nisu realne.
Nažalost, danas se i prostitucijom
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