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Probaj se moliti, pij Aktivin - h, bavi se intenzivno vježbom svaki dan dok ne padneš s nogu, šeći prirodom. Ako možeš nakon upisa otiđi raditi barem na mjesec dana na sezonu, da se barem makneš... Nabavi mačku :)
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Znam da si se iz ove pozicije čini sve crno i besmisleno, no moraš iskoračiti da bi sagledala čitavu sliku.

Prvenstveno bih ti htjela reći da su mnogi prekrasni ljudi imali izuzetno teško djetinjstvo i mladost. Mnogima je to pomoglo da se izgrade kao bolje, čvršće, plemenitije osobe. U svemu treba gledati ono dobro umjesto samo ono što je negativno. Jer, budimo iskreni - najlakše je reći kako ništa ne valja i kako je sve loše. A nikad nije baš sve loše.

Najbitnije je znati da izlaz i rješenje i alternativa UVIJEK postoje - ako to želimo.

S obzirom da si, još malo, pa gotova s obveznim obrazovanjem, predlažem ti da se čim prije odseliš, odeš k baki, ili makar u dom. Sve je za tebe bolje nego status quo. Već će ti tada svijet izgledati ljepši i bolji.

Nadalje, preporučujem ti da se baciš malo na čitanje. Za početak ti preporučujem knjigu Proces prisutnosti od Michaela Browna (mogu ti je poslati na mail) - samo je pročitaj i čitaj, koliko god puta ti je potrebno da je shvatiš i "probaviš".

Ako imaš ikakve mogućnosti, preporučujem ti također tečaj Autogenog treninga kod dr. Jadranke Škarice (ako si iz Zg).

Najbitnije je u ovom trenutku da se posvetiš sebi, svojem psiho-emocionalnom stanju i svojoj izgradnji. Bez temelja kuća se ruši.

Mi smo ti tu za sva pitanja - piši, nemoj se mučiti u samoći. Uvijek je lakše kad s nekim podijeliš muku. Mnogi od nas ovdje su prolazili teške trenutke i suočavali se s problemima, teškoćama i ružnim stvarima.

Ali evo - sad smo ovdje, živi i zdravi i veseli ... sve se može!!!


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draga Miss.

I to ce proci. Takav zivot si ti odabrala, da te ojaca, da transcendiras sebe. Sad si poput gusjenice koja se pretvara u leptira.

Ako mozes da sagledas situaciju, ne kroz sebe, nego sa drugog kuta. Tvoja mama i tata jadni pate. Uzasno im je. ti imas priliku da se izdignes iznad boli.

Vjeruj mi kad ti kazem da ce to proci.U zivotu ima tako puno divnih stvari koje samo cekaju da ih otkrijes. Previse je tuge oko tebe, pa od nje ne vidis divne stvari.

Zamisli koliko divnih ljudi cekaju da ih upoznas. Koliko iskustava te jos ceka. Koliko ljubavi. Pa, ti si tek zakoracila u zivot.

Zivot jest patnja, ali ako iz nje ucimo, postajemo nad ljudi.


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Što god da te muči ovdje se povjeri, molim te. Nemoj dizati ruku na sebe, vjeruj da život nije gotov samoubojstvom, time bi mogla preći u jedno još gore stanje.
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Sva sreca pa imam baku, ona ce moci da me izdrzava na fakultetu, ne u studentskom domu... Ne vidim resenje ni u cemu, mislim da necu uspeti da naucim i da ce me roditelji povuci sa sobom. Ma kome da se molim? U boga ne verujem, zapravo vise ni u sta ne verujem
Tvoj strah od roditelja te blokira.....Ti se njih jako bojiš i taj strah te veže za njih.


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Ljudi!!! Hvala vam puno!!! ispricala sam ovde jer nemam kome, tj imam, ali najmanje od svega zelim da me neko sazaljeva... Neko je spomenuo caj od maticnjaka, pijem ga vec Trudim se koliko mogu da se iskljucim, ali mnogo mi tesko ide... Evo danas sam izlazila, veceras cu opet, mozda ce mi biti ipak lakse s ljudima, iako uporno bezim od njih, jer sam mnogo razocarana u sve. Inace, sinoc sam opet dosla u iskusenje da se nagutam bensedinima, ali sam ipak popila samo 2 i na neki nacin sam ponosna na sebe sto nisam popila desetak, a inace moji lekove kriju od mene jer sam par puta pokusavala "samoubistvo" njima. Pored svega me muci nesanica, i zivim u konstantnom strahu da ce i meni puci neka zica u mozgu i da cu zavrsiti kao i oni... Na psihoterapije sam bila par puta, ali ona zena nije bas bila ljubazna pa sam odustala...

I da... Malo mi je tuzno kad neko kaze "kad pogledam tebe, pocinjem da cenim vise ono sto imam"... Tuzno mi je zbog sebe, ne znam vise da li sazaljevam ili mrzim sebe... Imam plan, i taman krenem, ali ubrzo se desi nesto, poljulja me i deo mene umre...


Toliko toga se nakupilo u meni... Toliko tuge, toliko besa, toliko pitanja "zasto?"... Toliko jebenih suza, da dolazim do zakljucka da ne mogu nikad da isplacem sve sto mi je na dusi.


Sustina je da zelim da dobijem znak da je sve ovo "vredno", da me ceka nesto veliko, i da zbog toga ne treba da odustanem. Jer, kako je krenulo... Ja nijednu svetlu tacku ne vidim... Samo jedan predugacak crni lavirint koji nema kraja, koliko god ja pokusavala da nadjem izlaz
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Ja sam ti rekla za matičanjak, odličan je.

A što se tiče nagutavanja, ja sam se nagutala u tvojoj dobi i pukom slučajnošću došla na ispumpavanje i ležanje na intenzivi, koje mi je spasilo život.
To nije riješenje. Ne znaš što te čeka i okani se razmišljanja o tome.

Crtaš li? Voliš plesati? Pisati? Znaš li plesti one narukvice prijateljstva ili slagati nakit od perlica?
Ako znaš - kada ne možeš spavati, počni s bilo kojim od toga. Ako ne znaš, potraži na internetu tutorijal i nauči.

Glede psihoterapije, moraš li baš k toj psihoterapeutici ići? Ne možeš k nekom drugom?
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Ostavi se tih priča: ako su moji roditelji oboljeli, onda ću i ja. Gdje to piše? To je najveća znanstvena laž ikada.

Mi sami određujemo naš životni put. Nikakvo nasljeđe niti sudbe gorke ni babaroge, nego mi sami.

I zapamti: uvijek - ama baš uvijek imamo izbor.

Znam da iz tunela sve izgleda mračno, zato sam ti rekla da moraš iskoraknuti, moraš se izmaknuti, udaljiti od svoje subjektivnosti i emocija i procijeniti stvari realno.

Mila, ništa ne rješavaš samoubojstvom - to je isto bajka. Zar misšliš da je tako jednostavno? Sve što sada ne uspiješ ostvariti, morat ćeš ponavljati razred. Zato - samo hrabro!

Mene je u životu iz svih patnji i teških situacija izvukao humor. Smij se, pjevaj, pleši ... slušaj glazbu.

Dobro ti je netko ranije savjetovao - nabavi kućnog ljubimca. Nekoga kome ćeš biti potrebna, kome ćeš moći pružiti svoju ljubav i o kome ćeš se morati brinuti. To će malo skrenuti misli. Rad je najbolja meditacija.

I kani se lijekova. Nikome nisu učinili dobro. To je bijeg i odgađanje neminovnog - buđenja.


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Pišeš da ne vjeruješ u Boga ... razumljivo u tvojoj situaciji.

No, umjesto psihoterapije, jesi li ikada pokušala otići u crkvu? Bez predrasuda. Samo onako, da osjetiš onaj mir i miris. Da tiho sjedneš sa svojim mislima i zamoliš za vodstvo. Otvorenog uma i iskreno iz srca. Što imaš izgubiti?


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Pa ovako... Ne mogu se odseliti kod bake, jer ona zivi u kuci iznad nas, tako da skoro sve sto prozivljavamo ja, tata i mama, prozivljava i ona. Ja ne mogu ljudi, placem zbog sebe, pa placem zbog majke sto je zivot kaznio i sto ce se celog zivota muciti, pa placem zbog tate, sto je labilna licnost, sto ga beskrajno volim, sto je bio najbolji otac na svetu, a vise kao da ga nema... Neko je spomenuo ljubimca, imam macku, vec 10 godina! :D inace obozavam zivotinje, i uvek kad sam u mogucnosti, pomazem psima lutalicama, pa cak idem i u krajnost, pomeram puzeve sa ulice kad je kisno vreme da ih ne pregazi nesto... Ja se smejem u skoli vreme provodim tako sto se smejem sa drugaricama... Cak i pevam, obozavam da igram, to radim i kuci, opusta me, al onda padne noc.. I sve ispliva na povrsinu.


Sto se tice boga-ne verujem u njega. Poslednji put sam otisla u crkvu pre oko godinu dana, sakrila se u jednom uglu i isplakala kao nikad do tad... I nisam osetila nikakav mir ni spokoj
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