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Nepročitano 21-06-14, 08:18   #1
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Zadani Ignoriranje

Naletjela sam nedavno na tekst o ignoriranju i pročitala neke stvari koje do sada nisam povezivala s ignoriranjem. Neke drže vodu, neke baš i ne znam.

Dakle, ignoriranje je odluka da se povucemo i prestanemo izražavati osjećaje prema određenoj osobi ili situaciji.

Osobno volim riješiti stvar razgovorom. Ili galamom. Ignorancija je posljedna opcija i obično uslijedi nakon što sam osobu zamolila da me pusti na miru i svjesna sam da nastavak odnosa ne može donijeti ništa dobro nijednoj strani. Prekid odnosa kao takav.

Međutim, čitam da postoji razlika između ignoriranja i "ignoriranja" za koju nisam znala.
Nekad se radi jednostavno o svjesnom prekidu davanja pažnje osobi koja nam je naporna i s kojom nismo bili emotivno involvirani niti to želimo biti, dok je ponekad ignorancija oblik ljutnje koju osoba ne zna izraziti, a povukla se samo da se oporavi od snažne emotivne boli koja joj je nanesena.

Kako god, uputno je osobu koja se odlučila na ignoriranje pustiti na miru, inzistiranje na nastavku odnosa i pokušaji izvlačenja energije mogu dovesti samo do jačeg ignoriranja ili kontraefekta...

Jeste li tuđe ignoriranje doživjeli kao izražaj velike emotivne boli te osobe ili kao bezobrazluk?
Jeste li skloni ignoriranju?
Ako jeste - ignorirate li zbog boli koja vam je nanesena ili samo zato što želite prekid interakcije s dotičnom osobom?
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Ignoriram i onda gledam i zamisljam kako ta osoba se sad muči jer ne pričam s njom,al obično bude da ta osoba uopće ne skuzi da ju ignoriram hahah
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Ignoriram i onda gledam i zamisljam kako ta osoba se sad muči jer ne pričam s njom,al obično bude da ta osoba uopće ne skuzi da ju ignoriram hahah
Stvarno? Ignoriraš, ali promatraš osobu? To bi bila treca vrsta ignoriranja.

Za mene je ignoriranje prekid energetske interakcije, a ono što je dovelo do ignoriranja je odsustvo interesa za osobom ili situacijom.

Ostali?

Kako vi ignorirate?

Baš mi je palo na pamet - neki ljudi durenje poistovjećuju s ignoriranjem. To nije to. Durenje je čista ljutnja, inatljivo ponašanje kojem je svrha povrijediti osobu s kojom smo u interakciji. Ignoriranje podrazumijeva prekid (ili to samo ja mislim :D).
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Ne ignoriram bas tolko u smislu koristenja istog kao orudja sa ciljem da se bas napadno pokaze kako "ignoriramo", iako je cak i to cesce od svadjanja i uopce Lusoidnog ponasanja :D :D :p

Ali sam sklon "otkaciti" se od ljudi kad su mi prenaporni ili kada pokazu znakove da sam ja njima, to mi nekako najprirodnije rjesavanje sukoba, nemam neku veliku potrebu "iznositi na cistac".

Ima zanimljivih situacija sa ljudima koji su bliskiji gdje su to nekakv e faze gdje se vise udaljimo, a da i dalje postoji neka bazicna povezanost pa se i nakon dugih perioda bez kontakta ne urusi i zna vratiti na staro.

Jedino mi se sa zenom sa kojom zivim ima smisla mučiti sa rasciscavanjem i iskomuniciravanjem. Sa ostalima ako si pasemo OK, ako si ne pasemo opet OK, ne vidim razloga da se trosi vrijeme i energija na pretumbavanje odnosa.


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Ne ignoriram bas tolko u smislu koristenja istog kao orudja sa ciljem da se bas napadno pokaze kako "ignoriramo", iako je cak i to cesce od svadjanja i uopce Lusoidnog ponasanja :D :D :p

Ali sam sklon "otkaciti" se od ljudi kad su mi prenaporni ili kada pokazu znakove da sam ja njima, to mi nekako najprirodnije rjesavanje sukoba, nemam neku veliku potrebu "iznositi na cistac".

Ima zanimljivih situacija sa ljudima koji su bliskiji gdje su to nekakv e faze gdje se vise udaljimo, a da i dalje postoji neka bazicna povezanost pa se i nakon dugih perioda bez kontakta ne urusi i zna vratiti na staro.

Jedino mi se sa zenom sa kojom zivim ima smisla zajebavat sa rasciscavanjem i iskomuniciravanjem. Sa ostalima ako si pasemo OK, ako si ne pasemo opet OK, ne vidim razloga da se trosi vrijeme i energija na pretumbavanje odnosa.
Lusoidno ponašanje? Oćeš da ti pozovem tigričastu frendicu?

Ovo što si napisao pod otkačiti se, ja smatram ignoriranjem.

Što se tiče bliskijih ljudi s kojima neko vrijeme ne kontaktiraš, pa ponovo kontaktiraš - mislim da to svi iskusimo i ne bih to nazvala ignoriranjem.
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Da li je to ono dok mi dragi nekaj predbacuje i govori nečemu važnom, mene to ljuti, pa šutim umjesto da govorim.
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Ignoriram ljude tako sto prekidam svaku vrstu komunikacije,a to je onda kada ne postoji nikakav drugi nacin da se otkacis od dosadne muve zunzare,jer oni nastavljaju svoje bez obzira sto sam pokazala da to ne zelim...znaci samo onda kad ne postoji drugi nacin.
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Lusoidno ponašanje? Oćeš da ti pozovem tigričastu frendicu?
Slobodno... ja i ona se... ignoriramo :rofl:


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Da li je to ono dok mi dragi nekaj predbacuje i govori nečemu važnom, mene to ljuti, pa šutim umjesto da govorim.
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Lusoidno ponašanje? Oćeš da ti pozovem tigričastu frendicu?
Koga, koga?

Hm, ignoriranje ... preznatiželjna sam da bih ignorirala. Ja sam ko svraka, uvijek mislim da bum nekaj propustila ak izignoriram.


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Koga, koga?

Hm, ignoriranje ... preznatiželjna sam da bih ignorirala. Ja sam ko svraka, uvijek mislim da bum nekaj propustila ak izignoriram.
Hehe...
Znatizelja zna biti gadna. to je ona prica -hajde da vidim sta ova/j hoce. I bude sta bude
ja cim shvatim da mi kontakt sa nekim mirise na sukob jednostavno ignorisem. ponekad suptilno alj jasno i nedvosmisleno stavim do znanja da ne zelim kontakt (aktivno ignorisem) a ponekad "se pravim lud"

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