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Ali uvijek postoji ali. Mozda nisam iskrena prema sebi, mozda bjezim od nekih emocija. I mozda se ipak samo zalim nad svojom sudbom i trebam samo necije utjesne rijeci, al ako nisam iskrena prema sebi kako cu si to osvjestiti. Zato si mi ti svojim komentarom pomogla da to uvidim i razmotrim kao mogucnost. Vidis da ipak moze pomoci razgovor, hehe. Nisam sarkasticna, osim mozda malo. ;))
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Joj ljudi, uvijek kad dodjem na ovaj forum, razvucete mi osmjeh na lice.
Toliko ste dragi da bi vas sad sve virtualno zagrlila. Malo sam emotivna u zadnje vrijeme, hehe. Ako sam i samo dosla se zaliti kak mi je trenutno tesko, tako mi je drago sto sam upravo dosla ovdje.
U glavi mi je sad tezi kaos, ali nadam se i zelim da ce sve doc na mjesto koje treba doc. Ako vam budem dosadna, sam recite, haha. Dotad cu pisati.
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prekidaj te misli koje pocinu sa ali ili sta ako...pocni hopsat.
Program misli koje te koce mora prestati. Dok god se to pitas, ostajes na mjestu. Nema nista od tih pitanja, samo jedno te isto vrcenje u krug.

Ne kruzi vise.

I pisi draga sto god ti padne napamet, to je isto svojevrsna terapija.


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Um mi radi, ali steka. Nisam se referirala na odnos sa roditeljima jer ima puno toga za referirati se, samo mi je to malo nezgodno ovak na forumu.
Evo, jesi se referirala, sasvim dosta, a ono 'puno' ćeš ionako trebati odraditi i otvoriti se nekome kome vjeruješ, ma kako ti nezgodno bilo.

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Znam da sve krece od tebe, ali ako ne znam kako i fali mi usmjerenja dzabe se vrtim oko svoje osi. Ne nauci covjek sam hodati, plivati, citati.. osim ako mu netko ne pokaze. Jedino mozda instinktivno. A i to ovisi koliko je povezan sa instinktom.

Netko može pokazati, reći, ali osoba uvijek manifestira na svoj originalni način, inače bi sve bilo čista kopija, sljedba, ponavljanje.....instinkt svi imamo, biološki. Instalacije uma su sasvim nešto drugo.


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Razgovor moze pomoci, a i ne mora, ovisi kako si otvoren da prihvatis neciji savjet. Nisam dosla ovdje da se zalim nad svojom kletom sudbom, nego da vidim drugacije nacine sagledavanja svoje situacije i razrjesavanje iste. Covjek moze biti osamljen u drustvu mase, ali moze bit i nadahnut.

Svi oni koji naslute iskrenost i voljni su je slijediti , u početku trebaju 'druge', razgovor, 'savjet'......Nitko ne može znati tvoj teritorij po kojem se krećeš, osim tebe ako se potrudiš za sebe. Energija ide od tamo gdje je ima prema tamo gdje je fali.....


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Ne moram ja nista zaista, mora se samo umrijeti. Ali zelim radit na sebi, bas zato jer to zelim. Bas zato jer imam izbor.. mogucnosti. I ako su ljudi ovdje zeljni podijeliti savjet, iskustvo, komentar koji ce mi mozda otvoriti nove vidike (ali nije nuzno ni uvjet), ja sam jako zahvalna na tome. Na bilokakvoj rijeci. Kao i na tvom komentaru. Zato valjda i postoji forum i ova sekcija foruma.;)
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prekidaj te misli koje pocinu sa ali ili sta ako...pocni hopsat.
Program misli koje te koce mora prestati. Dok god se to pitas, ostajes na mjestu. Nema nista od tih pitanja, samo jedno te isto vrcenje u krug.

Ne kruzi vise.

I pisi draga sto god ti padne napamet, to je isto svojevrsna terapija.
pa odlična metodica, samo nekako malo ljudi očigledno uspijeva.....a i svaka misao potiče iz nekog izvora, valjda......što nije učinkovitije svratit' do izvora pa urediti to tamo , ...malkice, da ne kruži više
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pa odlična metodica, samo nekako malo ljudi očigledno uspijeva.....
Uspiju svi koji su namjerili uspjeti (s naglaskom na namjeru) - kao i kod svega drugoga.

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pa odlična metodica, samo nekako malo ljudi očigledno uspijeva.....a i svaka misao potiče iz nekog izvora, valjda......što nije učinkovitije svratit' do izvora pa urediti to tamo , ...malkice, da ne kruži više
gle, ako ti je na autu otisla pumpa za vodu onda ces promjenit pumpu a neces ici gledat motor.

Znam da banaliziram ali iskreno, ja sam uvijek imala puno vise uspjeha sa sobom kad sam slusala sebe i svoju logiku nego tudje metode. Ciscenje trauma iz proslosti je u redu ali i opasno, ako osobi nije vrijeme za ciscenje- ako me razumjes. Za sve postoji tajming. Sve ostalo je forsiranje uma, emocija, tijela a moze dovesti i do ozbiljnih posljedica ukoliko osoba nije spremna za ciscenje.


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Analiziram, pokusavam shvatiti visi smisao, pronaci sebe, ali trenutno nemam vise snage.
Traženje višeg smisla i sebe može lako postat droga koja te uvlači u vrtlog bez dna.
Sudeći po vlastitom iskustvu, jedna od najvećih blokada dolazi iz osjećaja krivnje i nemogućnosti opraštanja samom sebi. Kada te život gazi svi promašaji su ti na duši. Čak i oni koji to nisu. U tom stanju teško je izbjeć osjećaj krivnje.
Predlažem da ispitaš ima li i koliko krivnje u tvojim osjećajima.
Ako se radi o snažnim emocijama, nađi način kako se vidjet u realnijem svijetlu. Lako moguće da si dosta toga prihvatila kao vlastitu grešku samo zbog toga što su druge strane bile dovoljno agresivne da te slome. A tamo gdje si griješila, griješila si kao bezbroj drugih ljudi za čije priče nisi čula.


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Sve je manje-više naša vlastita greška - samo što to treba prihvatiti i prigrliti a ne se zbog toga tući po glavi niti imati osjećaj krivnje jer je on totalno neproduktivan i beskoristan. Naše greške i jesu naši najveći pokloni - pod uvjetom da iz njih crpimo znanje, lekcije, poduke.
Još da se to nekako da ugravirat/utetovirat u podsvijest...

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