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Povreda su zapravo emocije koje te 'drže' i dalje nezdravo povezanu sa tom osobom. Dok god bude emocija, i dalje si u odnosu sa tom osobom, a pošto je povezanost toksična, patiš. Kada osvijestiš i 'počistiš' , moći ćeš se sa tom osobom nać' na kavici bez patnje ako tako odabereš. ( osim ako nije psihopata).

Način na koji ćeš se 'spasiti' ovisi od tebe, tvojim sklonostima, energetskoj spremnosti na rad i iskrenosti prema sebi.

Da. Upravo je o tome rijec.
Ta nezdrava povezanost .
Kako osvjestiti i pocistiti?
Kavicu sam pokusava, i bilo je bolje, ali nedovoljno dobro.
Jos je boli ostalo.


Spremna sam na rad.
Iskrena sve vise i sve jace
Energetski sam lose, upravo zbog te osobe koja me iscrpila do te mjere da sam bila u depresiji, u ocaju...
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Koje su tehnike, metode, savjeti?
Kako zaboraviti nekoga ko te (jako) povrijedio?

I da: nije bitno sta je konkretno bilo, ko je kriv, kako ni kada..
Samo me interesira NACIN, tehnika: kako oprostiti, prihvatiti, poMIRiti se sa svime..
Vjera u Boga me izvukla
Sad "samo" jos da smirim misli
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I da: nije bitno sta je konkretno bilo, ko je kriv, kako ni kada..
Samo me interesira NACIN, tehnika: kako oprostiti, prihvatiti, poMIRiti se sa svime..
Vjera u Boga me izvukla
Sad "samo" jos da smirim misli
Dakle, iskrenost je dobar početak , za bilo što. Ti očito nisi navela da si vjernica, pa me zanima pošto vjernici ne priznaju alternativne metode, zašto si potražila 'alternativnu' pomoć?????? Ima jako puno načina unutar crkve, imaju puno seminara za duhovnu obnovu i slično.
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Dakle, iskrenost je dobar početak , za bilo što. Ti očito nisi navela da si vjernica, pa me zanima pošto vjernici ne priznaju alternativne metode, zašto si potražila 'alternativnu' pomoć?????? Ima jako puno načina unutar crkve, imaju puno seminara za duhovnu obnovu i slično.
Zašto takav nastup? Pa ne govori o vjeri u crkvu, nego u Boga. Ja isto vjerujem u Boga, ali to nema apsolutno nikakve dodirne točke s religijskom/crkvenom dogmom.

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"Kako zna i umije"...

Eh, ja znam ali ne umijem
Hej bejbe, dugo te ne čuh, a još duže ne vidjeh! Sjetimo te se ponekad u nekim, prijateljskim, razgovorima...

Nego, naravno da umiješ, samo da se malo prisjetiš, i pis of kejk od problema. Ova situacija ti je samo triger, bitna je utoliko da od nje kreneš. Ili napravi jedno poštensko kopanje-ako si zaboravila šemu, poslati ću ti, ili na osnovu svog stanja i emocija definiraj programe (vjerovanja), kreni u pretraživanje i onda u obradu.
Budi sigurna da ćeš toj osobi na kraju biti zahvalna, jer, iako je bol bila velika, benefiti iz te situacije će ti biti još veći. A ostati će ti samo sjećanje na ono lijepo što je bilo.


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Dakle, iskrenost je dobar početak , za bilo što. Ti očito nisi navela da si vjernica, pa me zanima pošto vjernici ne priznaju alternativne metode, zašto si potražila 'alternativnu' pomoć?????? Ima jako puno načina unutar crkve, imaju puno seminara za duhovnu obnovu i slično.
hmmm... naravno da sam vjernica, ali u Boga a ne u crkvu.
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Zašto takav nastup? Pa ne govori o vjeri u crkvu, nego u Boga. Ja isto vjerujem u Boga, ali to nema apsolutno nikakve dodirne točke s religijskom/crkvenom dogmom.



Hej bejbe, dugo te ne čuh, a još duže ne vidjeh! Sjetimo te se ponekad u nekim, prijateljskim, razgovorima...

Nego, naravno da umiješ, samo da se malo prisjetiš, i pis of kejk od problema. Ova situacija ti je samo triger, bitna je utoliko da od nje kreneš. Ili napravi jedno poštensko kopanje-ako si zaboravila šemu, poslati ću ti, ili na osnovu svog stanja i emocija definiraj programe (vjerovanja), kreni u pretraživanje i onda u obradu.
Kažem ti, pis of kejk. Budi sigurna da ćeš toj osobi na kraju biti zahvalna, jer, iako je bol bila velika, benefiti iz te situacije će ti biti još veći. A ostati će ti samo sjećanje na ono lijepo što je bilo.
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vidim da me mozak malo zae.... a ja se nešto sva smotala... pošalji mi šemu, da se sredim i jesam, zahvalna sam toj osobi, jer me ta situacija potakla na nov pogled na svijet, život, Sebe, Druge... jedino te neke zablokirane emocije me žuljaju.. a tebi:
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vidim da me mozak malo zae.... a ja se nešto sva smotala... pošalji mi šemu, da se sredim i jesam, zahvalna sam toj osobi, jer me ta situacija potakla na nov pogled na svijet, život, Sebe, Druge... jedino te neke zablokirane emocije me žuljaju.. a tebi:
Kažem ti ja, bit će to pis ok kejk!
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hej biondina
Ma ja se samo parcijalno pravim da sam bjondina, da bi bilo zanimljivije.


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Zašto takav nastup? Pa ne govori o vjeri u crkvu, nego u Boga. Ja isto vjerujem u Boga, ali to nema apsolutno nikakve dodirne točke s religijskom/crkvenom dogmom.

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Nije nastup već pitanje, očito mi nije jasno.
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Nije nastup već pitanje, očito mi nije jasno.
bog je jedan, za sve u svemu. božanska energija je posvuda. kao zrak. u "vjernicima" i "nevjernicima" samo treba osjetiti. dijeliti boga ne religije je kao reći da je zrakniznad Hrvatske hrvatski,iznadd Amerike američki. tom logikom je i "bog" kršćanski, muslimanski.....
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bog je jedan, za sve u svemu. božanska energija je posvuda. kao zrak. u "vjernicima" i "nevjernicima" samo treba osjetiti. dijeliti boga ne religije je kao reći da je zrakniznad Hrvatske hrvatski,iznadd Amerike američki. tom logikom je i "bog" kršćanski, muslimanski.....
hvala ti na objašnjenju, religija i vjera nisu isto. Kada sam napisala da mi nije jasno , mislila sam na ono što osjećam u pozadini i ono što čitam da pišeš. I ...ne bi bilo loše prihvatiti stručnu pomoć psihologa, naravno ako tako odlučiš.

Inače , kada smo kod religije i crkve, ima svećenika koji znaju pomoći bolje od alternativaca. Nije potrebno biti isključiv.
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