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hvala ti na objašnjenju, religija i vjera nisu isto. Kada sam napisala da mi nije jasno , mislila sam na ono što osjećam u pozadini i ono što čitam da pišeš. I ...ne bi bilo loše prihvatiti stručnu pomoć psihologa, naravno ako tako odlučiš.

Inače , kada smo kod religije i crkve, ima svećenika koji znaju pomoći bolje od alternativaca. Nije potrebno biti isključiv.
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lucero, znala sam da si cvijetić i svjetlo i zlato, samo sam na tren pozabila.... hvala, već djelujeeee :smile_s un: hvala ti (:
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hvala, već djelujeeee :smile_s un: hvala ti (:


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Ne znam provjeravati...
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Zapamti,sve sto ti se dogodi u zivotu,ti si to odavno znala i odlucila da ce bit i to se dogodilo za tvoj razvoj.
Prihvati to znanje i pomoci ce ti brze izac iz toga.
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Ne znam koje su tvoje okolnosti, ali nekako se mogu poistovjetiti s tobom. Ja sam doduse takodjer povrijedila tu odredjenu osobu koja je i mene. Zapravo sve ovisi iz kojeg kuta gledas tu povredu i kako djeluje na tebe. Moram priznati, iako se jos nisam odmaknula od ovisnosti o toj osobi, puno toga sam naucila o sebi, o toj osobi, o tom odnosu. Stvari koje nisu direktno povezane sa tom osobom, ali su mi cucale u podsvjesti. Jos uvijek imam uspona i padova kada ne mogu u potpunosti oprostiti toj osobi, ali svaki put sam blize tom cilju. Evo upravo danas sam opet imala epizodu sama sa sobom kad sam tu osobu u tom trenutku mrzila. A mrznja proizlazi zbog tog sto mrzim sama sebe zbog tog neceg sto je ta osoba ucinila. A to nesto izaziva osjecaj o sebi onim sto mi godinama stoji u podsvjesti. U mom slucaju osjecaj da sam nevrijedna, smetnja, spoticalo, da je ta osoba samo cekala razlog da ju povrijedim kako bi se mogla maknuti od mene. Al to je sve iluzija prouzrovanim onim sto ja mislim o sebi, a ne ta osoba. Uglavnom, kazem sve manje imam te epizode jer sam svjesna njihovih uzroka.
Sama cinjenica da zelis naci nacina, rjesenja je vec sama po sebi velik korak. Znam kakav je osjecaj bit na dnu, ali kad jednom dodjes do dna nema vise dolje, to je to, to je taj glas u tebi koii ti kaze: Dosta je! Il cu zivjeti kak se spada il cu propasti u kaljuzi dna! I onda pogledas prema gore i vidis svjetlo, svu ljepotu koji ti nudi ovaj zivot. Mogucnosti, opcije.. Uvidis koliko si zapravo snazna, sposobna, vrijedna, koliko mozes pruziti svijetu. Tu si sa razlogom, Bog/Svemir te doveo tu do ovog dna da to shvatis.
Znam da su ovo samo rijeci mojeg iskustva, dozivljaja i ne poznajem te.. ali vidim i sebe kroz tvoje rijeci.. jer jos uvijek i ja prolazim kroz slicno. Ne mogu ti rec koliko sam takodjer postala vise zahvalnija na ljudima oko sebe, situacijama.. Unatoc tome sto jos imam epizode kad se osjecam onako kako sam vec opisala. Jos uvijek se ucim, pronalazim.. ali nema vise misli o povratku na dno.

Zasto zelis zaboraviti tu osobu? Jel ta osoba mozda izaziva nesto u tebi sto ne zelis znati da postoji?

Ja imam trenutke kada to isto zelim, ali uglavnom ne.. Doduse mi smo imali lijep odnos, jedino je kod to mene dobilo na gorcini nakon prekida. Ta osoba se ponijela suprotno mojim "ocekivanjama". Iako sada shvacam zasto su ta ocekivanja postojala, sto najbolje nisam ih bila ni svjesna tad. Htjela sam da ta osoba zeli bit dio mog zivota usprkos svemu, tocnije nasem prekidu kojeg sam sama inicirala. Pogotovo jer mi je ta osoba bila najveca podrska i utjeha u odredjenom razdoblju zivota. A sve to proizlazi od mojeg podsvjesnog straha od nezeljenosti, smetnje koja se povlaci od mojeg djetinjstva.
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U istoj sam situaciji!Ali ova zadnja recenica od Tilije,toliko je istinita da boli!!!..kako prevazici i naci snage mjenjati se,biti optimistican,vedar,voljeti zivot....kad rane nosimo iz djetinjstva i malo "grubosti",i mi vec "krvarimo"!!!
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A možda ta osoba pati za tobom i svjesna je koliko ti voliš nju ali i svjesna da nemože biti uz tebe i povlači se za tvoju dobrobit.
Možda ta osoba voli više nego ti.
A možda ima isti problem kao ti.
Možda je povrijeđena
A možda je stvarno đubre od čovjeka , ili se samo pravi da lakše zaboraviš
A možda
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