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Ta osoba ti je dala dar,iako to ne izgleda tako.
Razmisli sto mozes izvuci iz toga,kakvu pouku,kakvu korist.
Recimo,napucao te decko ili neka osoba ti je nesto napravila...sad ces mozda postat jaca i stabilna osoba nakon toga,umjesto da budes u vezi ili u kontaktu s tom osobom i da te cijeli zivot svojim mučenjem odrzava kao slabu osobu.
Mozda se ispred tebe nalaze neke vazne poslovne/ljubavne i druge odluke koje nebis mogla ispravno odluciti da ti prije toga nije prethodila ova povreda koja te pojacala i stabilizirala.

Zapamti,sve sto ti se dogodi u zivotu,ti si to odavno znala i odlucila da ce bit i to se dogodilo za tvoj razvoj.
Prihvati to znanje i pomoci ce ti brze izac iz toga.

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Koje su tehnike, metode, savjeti?
Kako zaboraviti nekoga ko te (jako) povrijedio?
Ne trebaš zaboraviti nego oprostiti. A kad oprostiš, onda nema potrebe da zaboraviš.
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Koje su tehnike, metode, savjeti?
Kako zaboraviti nekoga ko te (jako) povrijedio?
To se nikad ne zaboravlja, niti može. Čovjek, ili s tim živi, kako zna i umije, ili oprosti, pa samo iščezne.
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Koje su tehnike, metode, savjeti?
Kako zaboraviti nekoga ko te (jako) povrijedio?


Povreda su zapravo emocije koje te 'drže' i dalje nezdravo povezanu sa tom osobom. Dok god bude emocija, i dalje si u odnosu sa tom osobom, a pošto je povezanost toksična, patiš. Kada osvijestiš i 'počistiš' , moći ćeš se sa tom osobom nać' na kavici bez patnje ako tako odabereš. ( osim ako nije psihopata).

Način na koji ćeš se 'spasiti' ovisi od tebe, tvojim sklonostima, energetskoj spremnosti na rad i iskrenosti prema sebi.
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Ta osoba ti je dala dar,iako to ne izgleda tako.
Razmisli sto mozes izvuci iz toga,kakvu pouku,kakvu korist.
Recimo,napucao te decko ili neka osoba ti je nesto napravila...sad ces mozda postat jaca i stabilna osoba nakon toga,umjesto da budes u vezi ili u kontaktu s tom osobom i da te cijeli zivot svojim mučenjem odrzava kao slabu osobu.
Mozda se ispred tebe nalaze neke vazne poslovne/ljubavne i druge odluke koje nebis mogla ispravno odluciti da ti prije toga nije prethodila ova povreda koja te pojacala i stabilizirala.

Zapamti,sve sto ti se dogodi u zivotu,ti si to odavno znala i odlucila da ce bit i to se dogodilo za tvoj razvoj.
Prihvati to znanje i pomoci ce ti brze izac iz toga.

Sretno.

Znam ja to :)

Bila je to samo takva zivotna skola!!
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Ne trebaš zaboraviti nego oprostiti. A kad oprostiš, onda nema potrebe da zaboraviš.

Da...
Oprostiti
Njemu i sebi

Trudim se. Svaki dan
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Razumijevanja imam :)
Sve to INTELEKT zna
I osjecaj zivota to zna

Sad, samo jos POMIRITI se s tim
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To se nikad ne zaboravlja, niti može. Čovjek, ili s tim živi, kako zna i umije, ili oprosti, pa samo iščezne.

"Kako zna i umije"...

Eh, ja znam ali ne umijem
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