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Nepročitano 22-12-14, 06:41   #31
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Na koje vrijedne sadržaje misliš ,a da to onemogućava majčinstvo?

By the way, ja sam mati šestero dice (od 7 do 27 god) dakle isto ka i ti "malo neobićno" puno za naše podneblje

Nisam nikada osićala dicu ka prepreku razvoju svoje svijesti, dapače odgovornost za njih mi je uvik bila poticaj da više razmislim o sebi i svom putu u nepoznato...u život živući ga dan za danom kako sam najbolje znala i umila...
Ego-uvjetovanost samo ti može učinit tvoj vlastiti ego,zar ne?

Dakle,samo san tila reć da sloboda ne mora nužno biti proporcionalna niti onoj ženi koja ne osića potrebu da bude majka,a niti onoj koja to želi, ili već jest
Draga imagine, divno je da se osjećaš ispunjeno u svojoj ulozi.

Mislila sam na pitanja vrlo praktične prirode: kad imaš djecu, sve tvoje vrijeme je posvećeno njima. Moje prijateljice-majke mi se žale da nemaju vremena za vlastitu misao jer im je um neprestano ispunjen bavljenjem djecom.

Ja sam slobodna to vrijeme ispuniti čitanjem (i gomilanjem knjiga ), proučavanjem raznih tema, meditacijom u miru i tišini, jogom, istraživanjem raznih oblika duhovne prakse i raznih stanja svijesti.
Duboko, duboko sam zahvalna zbog toga. I osjećam se blagoslovljeno.

Nisam sklona buci, a ni suvišnom govorenju bez previše smisla. Volim tišinu. Iznad svega volim tišinu.
I zahvalna sam jer je imam.

Da, ego-uvjetovanost proizlazi iz vlastitog ega jer je to jedini ego koji nas drži u vlasti.
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Ne, uzvišenija zadaća za mene je ono što sam i napisala iza dvotočke: razvoj svijesti.

Ne želim djecu zato da bih bila slobodnija raditi na razvoju svijesti.

Uz roditeljstvo, koje traži potpunu posvećenost, bilo bi jako teško posvetiti se unutarnjem svijetu.

Ali, zašto to uzdižež u nešto "sveto". Upravo mi je smiješno. Ok, nemoj bit majka. Ne ostvari se na taj način. Ali čil, vumn. oke? Ako ne želiš bit žena koja zna šta je rodit dijete, ok, ušuti i nemoj se preseravat jer ne znaš kako je rodit dite
mislim da češ prije prosvjetlit sa djecom nego bez njih...kad te stanu vozat okolo naokolo ...tad se uključe tajni resursi preživljavanja i sve ti se prosvjetli u trenutku.


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[quote=BluePoppy;419069. Volim tišinu. Iznad svega volim tišinu.
I zahvalna sam jer je imam.

Da, ego-uvjetovanost proizlazi iz vlastitog ega jer je to jedini ego koji nas drži u vlasti.[/quote]

možeš li mi opisati -Tišinu?
strah od otpuštanja vlastitog ega nas drži u njegovoj vlasti.


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mislim da češ prije prosvjetlit sa djecom nego bez njih...kad te stanu vozat okolo naokolo ...tad se uključe tajni resursi preživljavanja i sve ti se prosvjetli u trenutku.

Ma sve ovo iznad boldanog teksta je bio cinizam. Čisti... Ne želim spamat, ali jučer sam posebno grinčevski bila "raspoložena". Ne nosim se baš najbolje sa nadolazećim blagdanima. Od zadnjeg zaljubljenika u Božić, kome nikad dosta izlizanih blagdanskih pjesama, od osobe koja poklončiće mjesecima unaprijed smišlja i koja već 01.12. ukrasi stan sam se "pretvorila" u čangrizavo, svadljivo, vulgarno derište koje zaskače ljude i svađa se (mislim na forum, nisam još prešla na ljude po cesti )...

Iskreno mi je žao i ispričavam se svima koji su jučer naletjeli na moju jezičinu i pomaknutu agresiju...

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Ne, uzvišenija zadaća za mene je ono što sam i napisala iza dvotočke: razvoj svijesti.

Ne želim djecu zato da bih bila slobodnija raditi na razvoju svijesti.

Uz roditeljstvo, koje traži potpunu posvećenost, bilo bi jako teško posvetiti se unutarnjem svijetu.

Ali, zašto to uzdižeš u nešto "sveto". Upravo mi je smiješno.


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Ma sve ovo iznad boldanog teksta je bio cinizam. Čisti... Ne želim spamat, ali jučer sam posebno grinčevski bila "raspoložena". Ne nosim se baš najbolje sa nadolazećim blagdanima. Od zadnjeg zaljubljenika u Božić, kome nikad dosta izlizanih blagdanskih pjesama, od osobe koja poklončiće mjesecima unaprijed smišlja i koja već 01.12. ukrasi stan sam se "pretvorila" u čangrizavo, svadljivo, vulgarno derište koje zaskače ljude i svađa se (mislim na forum, nisam još prešla na ljude po cesti )...

Iskreno mi je žao i ispričavam se svima koji su jučer naletjeli na moju jezičinu i pomaknutu agresiju...


Lijepo te bilo upoznati, ponovno. Inače pasivna agresija je vrlo česta kod žena, onako u til zamotana. A ono što osjećam je da te stav koji je PlavaMakica još i izrazila totalno izbacio iz kontroliranog ponašanja, jer.....ups , prepoznala si ono čemu težiš a iz nekih razloga si nisi priuštila. Eto, toliko od mene, da zavarim do daske........
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možeš li mi opisati -Tišinu?
strah od otpuštanja vlastitog ega nas drži u njegovoj vlasti.
Počelo je... a baš sam si prilikoom prvog posta PlaveMakice kontala koliko će trebati za jedan onako laganiji kontra udar . Tabui su za...ana stvar, udaraju po mrenama

Neš' ti pitanja:možeš li mi (pls) opisati (pazisadovovelikoslovo) Tišinu...

Štono bi Imagine rekla :udri Linđo, živo živo.....
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Draga imagine, divno je da se osjećaš ispunjeno u svojoj ulozi.

Mislila sam na pitanja vrlo praktične prirode: kad imaš djecu, sve tvoje vrijeme je posvećeno njima. Moje prijateljice-majke mi se žale da nemaju vremena za vlastitu misao jer im je um neprestano ispunjen bavljenjem djecom.

Ja sam slobodna to vrijeme ispuniti čitanjem (i gomilanjem knjiga ), proučavanjem raznih tema, meditacijom u miru i tišini, jogom, istraživanjem raznih oblika duhovne prakse i raznih stanja svijesti.
Duboko, duboko sam zahvalna zbog toga. I osjećam se blagoslovljeno.

Nisam sklona buci, a ni suvišnom govorenju bez previše smisla. Volim tišinu. Iznad svega volim tišinu.
I zahvalna sam jer je imam.

Da, ego-uvjetovanost proizlazi iz vlastitog ega jer je to jedini ego koji nas drži u vlasti.
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I ja sam se to pitala, očekivala sam ga puno prije, ali počelo je toliko slobodoumno da sam se jako ugodno iznenadila
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Inače pasivna agresija je vrlo česta kod žena, onako u til zamotana.
Nisam o pasivnoj agresiji pričala, već pomaknutoj... Pred samo koji mjesec sam bila u životnoj opasnosti. Tad sam hrabrila majku i sebe. I govorila nam da će sve biti dobro. Iako sam znala da baš i nije takva situacija...

Sad stojim svakakva i vidim da sam se uvjeravala u gluposti. I da nisam jaka niti staložena. I da ne da ne mogu pomoći njoj, već ni sebi...


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