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Samopoštovanje

Kada je Hrist u nama tada se ljubav preliva, to je zanos, ushićenje, ekstaza, sjedinjenje Duše sa Bogom i samopoštovanje je netaknuto. Odbijamo da čujemo da je Bog u nama, zbog odgovornosti koja je nerazdvojivo povezana sa tom spoznajom.

Za nas obične smrtnike samopoštovanje je veština koja se stiče i poboljšava vremenom. Treba proveravati sebe da li živimo na način koji nas zadovoljava i izražava, da li smo srećni jer kad volimo sebe, volimo i sve oko nas. Kad imamo osećaj samopoštovanja, dolazi do odsustva potrebe. U odsustvu potrebe pojavljuje se sve što nam je potrebno. Samopoštovanje je temelj stabilnog karaktera. To je zaslužena ljubav prema sebi. Samopoštovanje se najlakše stiče poštovanjem Deset Božijih Zapovesti.

Do samopoštovanja dolazimo ako možemo:

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učestvovati u životu,
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biti objektivni bez gubitka svoje individualnosti,
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spontano biti on što jesmo,
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biti iskreni prema sebi,
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voljni da razumemo međuljudske odnose i da uživamo u njima;
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zatim, reskirati da živimo život svesni činjenice da ga ne moramo potpuno razumeti;
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ne dozvoliti da budemo vođeni dogmom i lažnim moralnim normama;
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dopustiti drugima pravo izbora;
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želeti da se krećemo prema svom Višem Biću - prema svojoj Suštini,
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biti hrabri da manifestujemo sebe i slično.

Međuljudski odnosi pružaju obilje prilika za pozitivan ili negativni uticaj na razvoj samopoštovanja. Samopoštovanje ruši:

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oguglalo odbijanje,
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bespotrebne pretnje, povređivanje,
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dominiranje nad drugim bićima ili
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forsiranje sebe i drugih.

Na primer, ako smo stalno izloženi kritikovanju, počinjemo osuđivati sebe i druge; ili kada se sa nama neprijateljski postupa, počinjemo se svađati i povređivati sebe i druge; zatim ako smo naučili da doživljavamo sramotu nanosićemo osećaj krivice sebi i drugima. Ravnodušnost bližnjih će nas odvesti u usamljenost a uz stalno prigovaranje više nećemo biti u stanju sagledavati ljubav drugih prema nama.

Događaji, sami po sebi, nisu stres. Naša zamrznuta reakcija straha, naše sećanje na nešto slično iz prošlosti, čini događaj neprijatnim. Samo upoznavanje svojih strahova i otvoranje prema samopoštovanju će doprineti da sebe više poštujemo i nagomilana gorčina će otići od nas.

Kad nas se ohrabruje postaćemo odlučni, steći ćemo samopouzdanje. Ako živimo u sigurnosti, učimo se poverenju. Pohvale i potvrđivanje učiniće da cenimo sebe i druge, da cenimo dobro. Prihvatanje i odobravanje naš čini zadovoljni sobom. Bićemo sebi prijatelji, volećemo sebe i druge. Produbljujemo moć rasuđivanja i razmišljanja ako od malena imamo dobrog sagovornika, ako imamo sa kim da pričamo. Strpljivost ćemo najbolje naučiti ako su ljudi iz naše okoline tolerantni prema nama. Kada smo voljeni, vodićemo računa da ne narušavamo samopoštovanje u drugima.

Rođeni smo sa pravom na ljubav. Najveći poklon koji možemo dobiti od roditelja je osećaj sopstvene vrednosti, jer vera u sebe je ključ za sticanje samopoštovanja. Praštanje je velika alhemija putem koje možemo da privučemo blagoslov Gospoda.

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Stvarno jako lijepo.A i poučno,za one koji žele usmjeriti svoje djelovanje u ovakvom smjeru,jer je ovo zaista uputa za način življenja.

Nažalost,vrlo često ljudi koji zaista osvješćuju svoje ponašanje i uvode princip pozitivnog djelovanja u svaki vid svog života,a također nastoje ukazati drugima na taj pozitivan princip na svakom nivou ljudskog činjenja,a to su misli,riječi i djela,budu shvaćeni i podržani od rijetkih,a od mnogih su proglašeni za nekoga tko drugima soli pamet i proglašava samog sebe savršenim.Iako svi na deklarativnoj razini baš sve razumiju.Ali kad krene praksa,pa to treba pokazati u stvarnom životu,u konkretnim situacijama,onda se pokaže nešto sasvim drugo.


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Stvarno jako lijepo.A i poučno,za one koji žele usmjeriti svoje djelovanje u ovakvom smjeru,jer je ovo zaista uputa za način življenja.

Nažalost,vrlo često ljudi koji zaista osvješćuju svoje ponašanje i uvode princip pozitivnog djelovanja u svaki vid svog života,a također nastoje ukazati drugima na taj pozitivan princip na svakom nivou ljudskog činjenja,a to su misli,riječi i djela,budu shvaćeni i podržani od rijetkih,a od mnogih su proglašeni za nekoga tko drugima soli pamet i proglašava samog sebe "savršenim".Iako svi na deklarativnoj razini baš sve razumiju.Ali kad krene praksa,pa to treba pokazati u stvarnom životu,u konkretnim situacijama,onda se pokaže nešto sasvim drugo.

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Samopoštovanje

Kada je Hrist u nama tada se ljubav preliva, to je zanos, ushićenje, ekstaza, sjedinjenje Duše sa Bogom i samopoštovanje je netaknuto. Odbijamo da čujemo da je Bog u nama, zbog odgovornosti koja je nerazdvojivo povezana sa tom spoznajom.


Unesi zakone u moje srce, Gospode,
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Osim o samopoštovanju u svom postu govoriš i o samokontroli. To je dakako povezano na način koji ću sada pokušati ovjesniti:

Kad čovjek grijeha nastoji da Svjetlom pobijedi grijehe u sebi onda on sebe poštiva onoliko koliko uspjeva da se odvoji od grijeha nadvladavajući njegovu snagu. Tako bez istinske samokritike nema i samopoštovanja.

U tom smislu samopoštovanje nije poštivanje sebe onakvog kakvi jesmo (iako se ta fraza povlači kao nešto vrijedno) već samopoštovanje svog nastojanja da hoćemo i možemo da postanemo Svjetlo,duša na Božiju sliku i priliku. A kad to postanemo onda nam samopoštovanje nije više potrebno jer samopoštovanje je više kao nekakav samokritični kontrolor,donekle poželjni ego mehanizam. Kad postanemo svjetlost u Svjetlu,kad postanemo Kristovi tad nismo više svoji,nema samopoštovanja već samo poštovanja Svjetla i Ljubavi u kojoj nesebično uživamo.
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Svaki čovjek je u najdubljim, najskrovitijim mjestima svoje božanske biti, sazdan sav od iznenađenja poput one fasade katedrale u Ruanu, koju je Klod Mone slikao začaran – i u ranu zoru, i u podne, i u sutone, jer su pod različitom svjetlošću uvijek bili drukčiji, kao što se i sam čovjek mijenja zavisno od svijetla misli kojima se posmatra.

Čovjek je božanski po svojoj prirodi, ali čovjek je i zarobljenik - rob svojih navika, predrasuda, nametnutih vrijednosti, normi, principa, površnog pogleda na sebe i život, koji ga udaljavaju od samog sebe i postovanja sebe, svoje licnosti. Zbog toga, prva i osnovna ljudska dužnost je razgrnuti taj veo neznanja i zaroniti u sebe, prepoznati i prihvatiti sebe kao jednog, neponovljivog, dubokog, otkriti i prepoznati to božansko nasljedje u sebi – očistiti taj božanski dijamant, Sebe, od svjetovne prljavštine i uživati u njegovoj blještavoj čistoti i ljepoti. Poštovati i voljeti sebe je zemljiste koje radja sve druge božanske osobine.


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Svaki čovjek je u najdubljim, najskrovitijim mjestima svoje božanske biti, sazdan sav od iznenađenja poput one fasade katedrale u Ruanu, koju je Klod Mone slikao začaran – i u ranu zoru, i u podne, i u sutone, jer su pod različitom svjetlošću uvijek bili drukčiji, kao što se i sam čovjek mijenja zavisno od svijetla misli kojima se posmatra.

Čovjek je božanski po svojoj prirodi, ali čovjek je i zarobljenik - rob svojih navika, predrasuda, nametnutih vrijednosti, normi, principa, površnog pogleda na sebe i život, koji ga udaljavaju od samog sebe i postovanja sebe, svoje licnosti. Zbog toga, prva i osnovna ljudska dužnost je razgrnuti taj veo neznanja i zaroniti u sebe, prepoznati i prihvatiti sebe kao jednog, neponovljivog, dubokog, otkriti i prepoznati to božansko nasljedje u sebi – očistiti taj božanski dijamant, Sebe, od svjetovne prljavštine i uživati u njegovoj blještavoj čistoti i ljepoti. Poštovati i voljeti sebe je zemljiste koje radja sve druge božanske osobine.
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U potpunoj duhovnosti sebe se ne voli. Ne može se istovremeno biti subjekt i objekt ljubavi,subjekt i objekt zračenja. Ljubav je zračenje,a zrači se od subjekta prema objektu. To je stanje nesebične ljubavi. Nesebično bi značilo "ne sebe". Ljubi se kroz sebe.

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